How/why does someone act madly in love but continue to cheat behind that persons back?

My 30 yr old bro "Jo" has been dating his old high school gf for over 6 mons. He braggs consently about how wonderful "Peg" is to anyone who will listen. He spends all his free time with her and showers her with gifts,cards,flowers. Brings her to all the family functions and spends the whole time dotting on her. Well I just found out Jo has been cheating on Peg with someone at work(long story but know its true) and not just once but for over 4 mons! Jo told this girl all about Peg and that he has no plans on leaving Peg for her BUT Peg does not have a clue about this other ckick!If Peg ever found out she would be heartbroken and Jo knows this. So my questions are 1. If someone is "madly" in love why would they want to cheat(numerous) times on someone they charish and risk getting cought and hurting the other person. 2. I love my bf and don't even have a desire to cheat with anyone else even if i could get away with it so why would my bro?

How/why does someone act madly in love but continue to cheat behind that persons back?
Some people can love more then one person. Then there are people that love some but will cheat on them because they want to experince other people.
Reply:Your brother needs to get his priorities straight, and what goes around, comes around, she will find out!!!!!! Do not tell her, just go on with your boyfriend, and live your life with your boyfriend and your brother's girlfriend will find out!!!!!





You have your life and you have to lead it with your boyfriend, and your slimeball of a brother has Karma coming his way!!!





It is really sad, I know, but he will get his just desserts!!!!!





When the girl he is cheating with says she is pregnant!!!!





One of my ex's did the same thing to me, but then Karma came his way and it ended up he was seeing a girl behind my back and got her pregnant at the same time!!!





I let her have HIM and now he is getting his just desserts!!!
Reply:Some people have a very bad sexual addiction and need to get help for that......
Reply:Maybe your bro has commitment issues? Just speculation, but perhaps his subconscious has found him a way out if his relationship with Peg gets too serious for him?





He could also be lying about loving Peg so much, but it doesn't sound like it.
Reply:maybe she isnt giving him the sexual satisfaction he needs.


people cheat alot of the time not because they dnt love who there with but becuase they want something exciting and new it tends to be a phase though.


although that doesnt mke it right.











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Reply:I think you need to sit down and talk to your brother about his behavior. It's not cool to disrespect women like that. Especially to lead her on and rave about her so much then to turn around and possibly leave her for someone else. Normally it's the other way around where they treat them horribly. How sad! I think it's time to talk to your brother face to face and tell him that Peg doesn't deserve this and neither does this other girl. Someone's definitely going to get hurt and it really should be your brother getting hurt not these innocent girls. Tell him if he doesn't fix this soon that you will have your gf tell her or something. And let him know it's an embarrassment to you especially when you know the truth. Poor Peg!
Reply:Your bro is a selfish individual who is enjoying all the attention he's receiving. All things like this get found out eventually, and when they do he'll be up Sh@@ creek without a paddle.
Reply:Well based on your story Jo isn't madly in love...that's just lip service. If he was, then he wouldn't be cheating...period! So your bro is a liar and a cheat...and most of the time, they go hand in hand.
Reply:Some men just have a problem with monogamy. It could be a matter of circumstances that he is dating this other girl. Perhaps she is fulfilling some desire that Peg is not. One thing that is for certain, Peg needs to know the truth. If he won't come clean, then you should tell her. Chances are, even if things don't work out with this other girl, he will cheat again and by that time, he and Peg could be married with children and it will be much harder for her to leave.



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