What is she doing to me ? "she says she loves me" wat do i do ?

hi there, i love my ex to bits and i want to get back with her. The other nite i made her feel special and had a good chat to her. And she told me for the first time that she "loves me". And i asked her does she love and she said yes, but she aint in love with me. What does she mean by that ? She goes to me 2 weeks ago she cant be friends with me cos she likes me more than that. i go to her would you get back with me ? she replied she doesnt know what to do ? She doesnt know how she loves me??? Maybe its like a friend...........???? what do i do ? whats the difference for loving somone ? and in love please help ? i made this girl feel special did everything to make her happy. i wasnt even with her and i was still treating her nice and buy her expensive gifts ie flowers etc. She never gave me nothing back. I was there for her allways whenever she needed me ? what do i do ? please help??? if she cant do nothing about it why say she loves me ???

What is she doing to me ? "she says she loves me" wat do i do ?
There is a difference in being in love and just loving someone. Being in love, you have this feeling that almost undescribable. You always feel tingly, and special around them. You would do anything for them no matter what the case may be. They mean absolutely everything to you, now just loving someone is the way you love your best friend. You willl be there for them when they need you, but you still come first. Love is very complicating and honestly what you need to do is let her know that you are in love with her, and she needs to really figure out what she is feeling. If she can't be friends with you then she needs to figure out if she wants a relationship, if not then it is time for you all to move on. She is really confused and what makes it worse is that she is going to start making you confused. Tell her flat out that it is all or nothing. Since yall can't just be friends then she needs to take all of you or none of you.
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Reply:Loving someone is a deep, deep friendship really. And really caring about the well-being of someone and just enjoying being around that person. You want the best for that person. But...being "In Love!" with someone is really, really different. It is wanting to spend your life with that person. Being "In Love!" covers all aspects of a relationship and wanting to share everything, every moment. It is getting into the very soul of that person, devotion to that person, being able to discuss everything. You want that person to be foremost in the rest of your life. A bond. Try to enjoy her loving you in whatever way she means by it, but don't make her feel trapped or she will bail out fast! Also, if she is meant to be "In Love!" with you, give her time to discover who you are without pushing her. Maybe she will fall deeply in love with you after all...if it is meant to be. If not, you must realize, honestly, that this relationship is what it is and the real true love is yet to come. I am surprised that you have done so much for her and she does not do the same for you. This is very telling if you think about it. Is she shallow? Remember, too, that sometimes a person gets caught up in the moment, because he/she is happy at the time, and will say "I love you!," but the true test is what he/she actually does. Use your gut instinct more and not just your eyes and heart. And...what is wrong with just dating different girls for a while and learning about women. The right one will come along when you really are NOT looking!



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