Do you think she is playing a game with me ?

hi there, i love my ex to bits and i want to get back with her. The other nite i made her feel special and had a good chat to her. And she told me for the first time that she "loves me". And i asked her does she love and she said yes, but she aint in love with me. What does she mean by that ? She goes to me 2 weeks ago she cant be friends with me cos she likes me more than that. i go to her would you get back with me ? she replied she doesnt know what to do ? She doesnt know how she loves me??? Maybe its like a friend...........???? what do i do ? whats the difference for loving somone ? and in love please help ? i made this girl feel special did everything to make her happy. i wasnt even with her and i was still treating her nice and buy her expensive gifts ie flowers etc. She never gave me nothing back. I was there for her allways whenever she needed me ? what do i do ? please help???

Do you think she is playing a game with me ?
I can't say for sure whether or not she's playing with you. Only she can tell you that. You might want to ask her straight up what her feelings are. If she says that she doesn't want to be with you as anything more than a friend, then you have to respect that. You might also try not being so available to her if you want to try to win her over. If you do all that you say you do for her without actually being her bf, then you're holding nothing back and you leave nothing to mystery. She already knows that she has you at her feet. Hold back a little.
Reply:Im going through the same thing man, I dated this girl i work with and things were great but one day she dropped me for another guy who treated her like S***, and i was always there for her to talk to and so forth but it never went passed that, she just went and found someone who is doin the same thing. So i guess im trying to tell you just let her go and save yourself future heartache. trust me it will hurt more if you try and drag it out.
Reply:Well, having had a good deal of trouble with an on again off again relationship not long ago I feel jaded enough toward relationships right now to say yeah, she's dicking you around.


If she's going to take and take and not give anything back, then it can't be good.


And the "I love you" I'm in love with you" bit, well, the way I've always seen it is you love many people. Friends, family, the few ex's that you get along with, but are usually found "In love" with the person that you really want to be with.


And lastly, if she can't even fathom whether or not she want anything to do with you, and if so what, then she probably isn't serious enough to bother with.


Best of luck in the future bro.



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