What if for the past 6 years?

what is you did not sleep in the same bedroom as your wife for the past 6 years. She never wanted to be intamate. I tried the weekly date thing. No luck, she wanted to be home by 8. I tried the flowers and gift thing. no luck. I started to really develop an esteem issue. I just could not get her to tell me what I needed to do. I take care of myself but felt like she was unattracted to me. then the drama began. I feel totally betrayed

What if for the past 6 years?
just wanted you to know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! I have tried all of these things and still no luck. i finally got tired of trying after six years and decided that this is the way it is going to be if i want to be a part of my son's life.
Reply:Dude, get out of there!!! I can almost guarantee she has someone else. Does she go out by herself at all? Are there times when she won't explain where she is, or her explanations don't make sense? She keeps you around for the paycheck, plain and simple. No one deserves to be treated that way!!! Good luck brother!!!
Reply:sounds like she needs therapy, you need marriage counseling together and/or she is cheating on you.





Sounds like pure he** too.... If she won't go to counseling, I'd divorce her. You don't have a marriage... something is terribly wrong.
Reply:i read your other post... i would leave. there is no way that other person respects you what so ever, oh and take your biological daughter with you... anyone that calls the cops on a parent like that, is only out for themselves, she probaly seen just money(child support) walking out the door.
Reply:Roll out, immediately.
Reply:probably having an affair, try counseling, if she is not up for it then get a divorce and don't marry anyone crazy again
Reply:Could be she feels unattractive. Could be she is depressed. Could be she has something on her mind that she doesn't know how to tell you. Six years is a long long time for this to be going on. Tell her you need to know what is going on that it is upsetting you and suggest counseling. If she refuses, then you will have to make a decision. You deserve to be happy.
Reply:leave that lazy beiotch... sounds like she aint treatin u right to me
Reply:well, maybe its nothing to do with you.........did ya ever think it could be her that is experiencing low self esteem about herself or something else is going on with her..........maybe the question you need to ask her is this " Honey is there anything you need to talk to about or need me to listen to?" maybe she will open up who knows.





Im sure she loves you and that she is attracted to you or she wouldnt of married you. I really dont know what advice to give except pray to God about all of this. He will not steer you wrong.





Good luck to you and ill say a prayer for you.



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