this is continuation of my last question about a girl. I will make long story short. Its been 5 to 6 weeks since we met. couple of weeks ago we went out (not as a date) and when we came back I handed her a gift (flowers and a book) and appriciated her friendship. Then she didnt talked with me for a week and I thaught that she was pissed off.. But few days ago she called me as return call for my earlier call and said that she was sorry that she didnt talked to me over the week and that she missed me. Now I dont know whats going on, does she really meant that or its just that she is being nice to me??????????......(girls please help)
Whats happening here?????
It's hard to tell at this point. She could just be being nice, but she could genuinely be sorry. You have no idea why she didn't call sooner; maybe something big came up. All you can do is wait and see what happens. I know it sucks not knowing, but all of the good things in life require patience.
Reply:Probably just being nice
Reply:If it took her that long to get back to you, she probably doesn't like you. Sorry, kiddo.
Reply:We are weird... Some more so than others. Maybe it scared her a little bit. There are a lot of maybes really, but if you like her then continue to spend time with her. Just don't get in a big hurry and maybe have a serious conversation about the feelings you each have.
Reply:hmmm, confusing. well, it could have been that you just surprised her unpleasantly by going too fast on her. she also could have been busy, so just check out her schedule without asking her, because she might lie to you. just keep being nice to her, but not like a boyfriend yet, and things might work out.
Reply:sounds like she thought it was a date, and was trying to follow some stupid traditional rules of dating. (what are those anyway?) but just tell her that you were intending for the gifts to be friendly. that should clear the air.
Reply:She was busy. She SAID she missed you and was sorry not to have been able to talk to you. What is the mystery? She likes you. Maybe just as a friend, but she is being sincere, otherwise she wouldn't call you at all.
Reply:She might have liked you but was just scared that you would change your mind about her. I'd give her another shot. If she's just being nice she won't go out with you forever.
Reply:If I were you I would just take her word for it. You don't really know much about her yet still, so she may have just been really busy. Just take it a day at a time and it will all unfold itself.
Reply:Ask her why she didn't talk to you for a week. Ask her if she really likes you. Just ask her. All she can do is say she only wants to be friends. At least then, you know and you can go from there.
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