When should one bring a hostess gift?

I have been invited to quite a few holiday parties this year. They include large, catered fancy affairs, festive house parties, ladies' teas at country club venues, and intimate dinner parties (about 10 guests). I generally bring small hostess gifts or flowers to the smaller personal events, and a bottle of wine to the dinners, but I wonder whether it's appropriate to bring a bottle of wine to the larger, more formal catered parties? Is it ok to arrive empty-handed at the holidays? The hosts certainly aren't throwing the parties with an expectation of gifts or contributions (we're on the "mature" side of 40) but I don't want to appear boorish. Thoughts?

When should one bring a hostess gift?
If you are going to a party at someones home it is always nice to bring a gift for the host or hostess. You can bring flowers, wine, or something more personal such as an ornament if it is a holiday party. If you are going to a party held art a banquet hall or venue no gift is required but a thank you card after the fact (hand written) is always a nice touch. Enjoy and Good luck
Reply:a plant would be better for a home gathering


wine is always a great gift to the host!


but so is a plant .. or a gift card!


gifts are not nessarry but it's a nice jester!
Reply:You have the right idea for the other parties, for a catered party I would bring something directed more towards the host like a box of candy, or candle, something not meant to be shared at the party.
Reply:I would just bring a hostess gift to gatherings at people's homes or intimate gatherings (like the ladies tea) hosted by an individual. For large catered events, like an office party, it is not necessary to bring anything.
Reply:For home parties, yes; for a party thrown at a restaurant or hall, then no.
Reply:It's ok to arrive empty handed. I don't think a food item is good because the hostess might feel compelled to serve it and it might not fit with the menu. What is always appropriate, though, is a nice thank you card afterward thanking them for inviting you and how much fun you had and that you look forward to seeing them soon. If you are a "group" then all of you probably will be recipocating with a party of your own and that could get a little expensive trying to bring something to everyone's party. So, go, enjoy, and send a very nice thank you card afterward, even if you don't enjoy it.



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