Am i being to hard on him? Or what's the best way to approach?

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. The first year he showered me with sweet gifts, cards, flowers etc. I'm not a material girl at all and very selfless and while I thought those things were very thoughtful I also thought he was just showing me little ways he loved me.


A year later... The last card he has goven me was one asking for forgivness for forgetting my bday! No flowers, no sweet gifts...this year for my bday he bought me a used treadmill (that I picked out and called about because I am 7wks preg), I spent almost 400.00 dollars on him! I just left his house after staying for 5 days, washing his clothes and dishes and being so sick from pregnancy, while he goes fishing!


My point is and question is.... I need to talk to him about how I feel like I am doing and giving more. I just dont know how to bring it up without starting a fight, I dont want to seem like I am getting on his butt. Or am I being to hard on him?


What do you think?? Help please!!!

Am i being to hard on him? Or what's the best way to approach?
I think he needs a reality check. It seems like he has just given up being that guy he was for the first year and feels like you are his and can skate on by. Do I think he should shower you every time with cards and gifts like before? No. But he should be able to remember your birthday. And more importantly he should be taking care of you right now. Pregnancy is hard, I went through it alone. He shouldn't be making it harder on you. Yeah you should still do your normal stuff, but he needs to realize that at 7 months you are going to have limitations. When you talk to him, don't start it off yelling or anything. Calmly ask him why things are different now, and if there was anyway he could help out more because of everything going on.
Reply:I don't think a guy should forget his girlfriends birthday thats just not right. I think this guy is being unfair.



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