I need advice on asking girl out....?

i have been trying to ask this girl out, but she always say she has something to do, or have no time at all or bs like that...she knows i like her i have given her flowers and gifts, but at this point i want to have aformal conversation with her to see where i stand..


i dont know what is going on, but with others friends of mine she has no problems accepting their invitations.....


sometimes i think she likes me too, but sometimes i dont......i dont know if...


does she wants to give me a hard time????or maybe she doesn want to have anything with me????? please help...

I need advice on asking girl out....?
There are several cheesy techniques you can use to lower your chances of rejection (such as making a bet with a girl and the loser has to make them dinner) but these kinds of games are unnecessary. If you are straightforward, and don't beat around the bush about what you want, a girl will respect and admire your confidence.





Optimally, you would ask her in a face-to-face setting. However, if that is not possible, either because the opportunity won't present itself or because you aren't confident enough, your best alternative would be over the phone.





Avoid, at all costs, asking through email or any other written medium (Instant Messenger, a note, etc.). Not only do these methods scream "CHICKEN!" they also leave behind a paper trail that may or may not come back to haunt you.





One way to avoid looking like an idiot is to have something in mind to say for these three possible reactions to your question so you won't be caught off guard :





If she says yes


have a plan in mind; know your schedule and have an idea to suggest.





If says no


Don't act shocked or offended. Just be like, "Alright." Then carry on the conversation as if you never asked. Be friendly and polite. Too often guys take a "no" personally and get ticked off. Girls don't admire or respect a negative reaction. The fact that you were able to brush off her rejection so easily may actually raise her interest.





Hope this helps, just remember if it does not turn out she likes, remember you tried. And look at it this why, if you didn't try it would be the same as a no anyway. Confidence is key. Good Luck
Reply:she does not like you at all or MAYBE she is just testing you to see if you will crack BUT i say you should say what is on your mind



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