She is not interested anymore?What happened to chemistry?

so here's the deal: This beautiful girl and I have beed dating for around 3 months.this is our first time of dating. I loved her so much, and she did,too. i've bought her lots of flowers and gifts. I haven't seen any girl as beautiful as her and i can't even think about losing her. these days, she doesn't act like befor. she seems not interested and i don't know what to do. i even heard from one of her friends that she wants to break up.i talked to her and told her that i love her more than anyone who loves anyone else. and she didn't say anything. our dates are just walking to school(we're both 17). she doesn't go to the movies, to cafe, restaurant and .... wth me and when i ask the reason, she says that she can't because her family doesn't allow her. she says that she can't tell them because they are not the kind of person to accept dating. and please don't tell me to meet her parents. what should i do to save her?

She is not interested anymore?What happened to chemistry?
it's not about saving her, save yourself! Why would you want to be with someone that refuses to be honest with you?
Reply:That guy above is right...you came on waaaaaay too strong.





You havent kept her interest or got to know her really, its been 3 months and you seem to have done nothing but bombard her with i love yous, flowers and gifts. She is probably completely overwhelmed by it all and more than likely finds it stifling.





You need to lay off this and chill out....just get to know the girl slowly and have fun together without it being this massive romance if you want any chance of being with her...





Maybe explain that its cos you like her so much that you are this way and you didnt mean to come on so strong and that can you maybe start again and just casually see each other for a bit without all that other hearts and flowers stuff...





Lay off pressuring her to be just as into this 'big romance' thing as you are





And....if she doesnt want to...then hell, who wants to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you? find another girl who will like all your big romantic gestures maybe : )





Good luck
Reply:look girls like to upgrade it's what they do. you were fun but now its time for her to move on shes 17.get use to it my Friend until you find the right girl for you this is what your life is going to be like
Reply:Sounds to me like you're beat dude. You can't keep a good relationship going with a girl who's parents don't allow her to date properly. Perhaps being with you is just too complicated for her right now... especially with the "parents" thing going on. I don't think there is anything you can do to save this... sorry.
Reply:back off dude, be scarce for a while. You pushed her away by showing her your undying love for her, i know u meant well but girls are funny like that. Shes prob bored with you, so switch it up, be to busy to walk her home everyday.. Dont call her for a few days, and i gaurantee she will flip those feelings upside down and then she will be the one who is wanting you and so in love with you. Girls want what they cant have, simple as that dude!
Reply:Holy crap it's because you came on WAY too strong. The family thing is just a convenient excuse she came up with to let you down easy. Jeezus, dude, in the future, don't go all gonzo on a girl like that buying flowers and presents nonstop. It makes you look really needy, especially since you're only in high school. Also, you don't "love" someone in high school after 3 months...if I were a 17 year old girl and some dude that I just started dating started going off on how much he loved me and crap like that, I'd freak. Girls HATE needy/clingy guys.





I don't mean to sound offensive, but this is stalker material.



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