Why can he not leave me alone?

Our divorce was final in March. I had to have him arrested for harrassment in April. He called and e-mailed day in and day out. I changed my phone number. He calls me at work. He sends flowers and gifts. He still e-mails. He is dragging me back to court to try and have our divorce set aside. I have begged and pleaded for him to stop and he won't. I don't answer the e-mails and I hang up when he calls and he still keeps going!!! WHY??!!

Why can he not leave me alone?
He has a problem. You need to get a restraining order %26amp; file harrassment charges. If you go back to court explain his actions to the judge %26amp; see if he will order your ex to receive conselling for this behavior. Change your email address, change your home phone number, %26amp; tell your work if he calls you don't want to talk to him- they can tell him you can't have personal phone calls. And whatever you do, don't ever lead him on or allow him to think that you may give him another chance. Keep a journal of everytime he calls, writes, sends you something, or says something not appriate - keep it in a safe hidden place, you never know when it'll come in handy.
Reply:sounds like he is obsessed by you be care full
Reply:Sounds like he is obsessed... Be very careful of your surroundings and just stay aware of his stalking behavior. Go and get a documented police report and submit a court ordered restraining order against him. He is locked in mentally and overly devastated of your discontinuance in your marriage and he is desperately trying to get your attention..
Reply:He has a problem or a big ego, because you ended the marriage and not him. Get a restraining order and let him know about it. Stick to your words. Tell him you have a boyfriend.
Reply:Get a restraining order. And every single time he breaks the rules of it. Call the police. He WILL get the hint. I had to get a restraining order on my ex. Then a protection order because we lived in a different state than him. He threatened to kill us. But anyways the only way to stop it is use the law to your advantage it worked for me.
Reply:He's a stalker, it's a personality disorder of sorts. Hope you can get away from this, it can get very dangerous.
Reply:Because it's just hard to let go. But he is definately showing obsessive behavior, and if you have too, have him arrested again.





Keep a journal of everything that happens for the court. Dates, times and the type of things he does. Be concerned. And let noone make you otherwise, this can be very dangerous, and the more you protect yourself, the better off you will be.
Reply:And he probably wonders why you divorced him. Contact an attorney and file harassment charges against him.
Reply:Restraining order
Reply:It's a control issue with him. He is not happy unless he can control you. He sounds dangerous. Get a restraining order against him, and report to the police EVERY time he breaks it. They will keep a log, and after awhile he will be arrested.



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