Saturday, October 24, 2009

Which man should I choose??? Help!?

I broke up with my ex 6 months ago. We had been together nearly three years and we loved each other. We borke up as he had had a tough time- lost a friend in a car crash and we had a miscarriage we broke up as he needed space and didn't want to stay with me when he couldn't give me 100%. I met another guy- lets call him Mr X. He is loving, kind, considerate, he does everything for me, has a good job buys me flowers and gifts etc. He says he loves me which I haven't said back- i don't feel that way. Recently my ex has said he still loves me and woiuld love us to get back together but he wants me too be happy. My ex means so much to me I wany to be with him but he can be childish and has just got a job after being out of work for over one year. Please help???

Which man should I choose??? Help!?
I think you need to make this decision. Who makes you the happiest? That's what it's really about. Not how much time you spent with X or Y. Who do you truly see yourself with in 5, 10 years? Don't worry about who your friends like, or who your family likes, who do you like? Who can you spend the rest of your life with and share every aspect of your world with? Always remember that you deserve the best and you should never settle. Good luck!
Reply:No brainer. You don't love the current, you love the ex. The ex wins and Mr X loses.
Reply:You do need to make this decision, but you have to look out for yourself. You may love him, but will you guys be able to make things work? He should have pulled you closer when he needed you the most, but instead he pushed you away. It sounds like you both needed each other, but weren't able to be. Love hurts, but it is better to love and lost then to never have loved at all. Good Luck.



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