What can i do to get over the pain i feel?

I dated this guy i worked with he seemed so cool so after a year of working with him i decided to date him. Everything seems cool but he was very demanding and wanted everything his way he would always tell me i was wrong and he was right so i should just listen to him. Being the person i am i wasnt having that. He would leave for hours and not answer his phone or call then he would come back with flowers and gifts saying that's what he was doing. And when i wouldnt believe that he would get made at me. I also used to see girls calling his phone and he would be like "oh they crazy i dont know why they calling me" and once again b/c i didnt believe that he would make it like it was my fault. Anyways he ended up hitting me and when broke up. After the break up i found out that he wasnt indeed messing with the girl i saw calling his phone and she is pregnant for him. I really cared about this dude and he hurt me soooooooo bad and i cant understand why b/c i was really good to

What can i do to get over the pain i feel?
Wow, sounds like you are dealing with a hardcore player. First, you need to speak with your manager one on one and explain the situation that has risen at work. I know you may not enjoy this, but he is the only that can help. For example, scheduling different times you two can work together, looking for rumors within co-workers, etc. With this, you will have him on your side because you made him aware of the situation and why you feel uncomfortable.





Next, if possible you should try and find the girl he was previously with and let her know that she was cheating on him with you. You should let her know the situation and apologize and say that you had no idea of the mischief this boy was causing.





Third, be careful of guys you date nowadays. Coming from a former player, I used to do the things this male has done. He would manipulate you until he got his way...Hence, the flowers, chocalates, etc. You need to understand something...it may be hard to stay single but you should always be cautious of everyone. You need to learn to take things slow and find out more on specific people you are interested. For example, you always to research on everything you want to buy...cars, mp3 player, computer, etc. why wouldnt you do the same with the men you date?





Lastly, never regret what has happend to you in the past. You should walk away a strong person and learn to accept people for who they are. Sure you can be mad and upset all day, but you know what to expect in a cruel society. I really hope you cheer up and things work out for you in the long run.
Reply:you are in sad shape he hit you and you're worried about anything this guy does ????what kind of job do you have, i'm amazed at who gets the jobs these days!!!
Reply:My god! Count your blessings and move on....just be thankful it was you that ended up pregnant! Move on girl-this guy is a disaster...find someone else.
Reply:yup that sucks. i would say find a different job, a better job. i know that's easier said than done but that is not fun having to see him every day. move up.



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