What to do when you find out you've gotten used for sex?

I met my ex over the internet who lives in Abu Dhabi. We had a six month long telephone (on a daily basis), written correspondence relationship. He sent me tons of flowers and gifts, gifts that you only give to somoen you love. He loved me and decided that after we meet, we were going to get married. That is what I was told. Finally I went to meet him. I stayed with him at his home, and so naturally the inevitable happened and we had sex.


While I was there he showered me with very, very expensive gifts...leading me to believe that he is "serious." But there was no mention of marriage, or long term. I was afraid to push the subject because you know how men are. Now that I'm home he stopped calling an emailing me. Clearly he got what he wanted, and now he is done. I feel like I was treated like a prostitute (the VERY expensive gifts)-which is beyond insulting. So, I want to send back everyting he ever gave me. Does anyone have an suggestions? He broke my heart!

What to do when you find out you've gotten used for sex?
Hi ANN, First thing don't give is gifts back.If they are that expensive, you can sell them on ebay or run an add.For pete sake,He lied to you all the way,and made you feel like a ho.You deserve something out of this nitemare.I would change your email address,So this Bastard cannot bother you anymore.This whole thing was a set up from day 1.It's not your fault,it's that


F U C K I N G LIEING BASTARD FAULT.What needs to be done to him,Is have someone cut is balls off, and stick them up is A S S.That will stop him from ever pulling this on anymore women.





Clowmy
Reply:When your foot loose and fancy free, your going to be used! Most folks have been used at one time or the other!





Your experience will make you wiser the next time!
Reply:Do not send back the gifts! Send them to me... please...lol...only kidding, but really dont send them back to him. If you cant keep them give them to a charity. I know that you are hurting about this but just chalk it up to experience and move on. Difficult, I know, but move on you must!
Reply:Keep the gifts and don't have any more contact with him. You don't need to spend any money on posting them gifts back. Sell them on Ebay or stg if you don't want to look at them anymore.





If there was some misunderstanding somewhere, HE knows how to contact you.


Otherwise, it better to be careful from now and trust your instincts.


My gut feeling is this fella isn't all he's made out to be.
Reply:Erm anyone who does this is extremely sick, i mean spending so much time and money. i think he will call back but when he does questioned it. he sounds afraid.
Reply:DON'T SEND HIM ANYTHING BACK... don't let him feel like u're thinking about it
Reply:keep it... and don't do the same
Reply:i'll take those expensive gifts if you don't want 'em
Reply:He was worthless. Gifts or not.





You must be very beautiful.





You can do better.





What I would do is to go find someone else. Don't waste time wanting someone who doesn't want you back. There are plenty out there who would want you for who you are.
Reply:well,charge it to experience.if the gift keep on reminding you of ur ex and his no string a touch relationship then gave it to others.
Reply:Keep the gifts..don't forget the lesson learned.....Life goes on so should you
Reply:You are, quite obvously, not the only one, put it down to experience and move on.
Reply:all i can say is, don't send back all the things he gave you.


what else is there to say, except accept it and forget him.,,move on. A person who does not made a mistake has not tried something new. at least now you have learn a lot from this experienced. Next time you will be wiser.
Reply:First, I want to say sorry this happen to you, by the way I am a man, but I know how you feel, this happen to me! You can say no way, but it did, just in reverse. But, pick your head up, life goes on, just be very careful the next time around, for you, as it was for me, a lesson learn. Prostitute, is one word that does not fit, you did not lay with Tom, Dick, and Harry, nor his friends, just him. He is the Prostitute, cause he is out for a count. So, this washes off, and you can go on. You are part of a network of woman who help keep this world going, women are the Back Bone to any man. Remember that! If you care to chat about it; steeleaddsn@aol.com
Reply:KEEEP THE GIFTS......GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON.
Reply:Yes, he paid you for sex with those expensive "gifts". I wouldn't worry too much about returning them, however. Instead of spending my money on the postage, I would get myself into counselling and explore the reasons why I fell for this guy in the first place and how I can prevent the same thing from happening to me again in the future.
Reply:I think your hurt is very real, anyone treated like you were treated will have assumed that he loved you. It is the nature of the beast in all of us, some people enjoy playing prey and predator, I think you have seen your life first such game. I am sorry about what happened to you !!





Have a fun filled life, there is a new day everyday. Kicking against the thorns will hurt us only.
Reply:Why are you upset with him? YOU are the one who allowed yourself to be used for sex. Yes he got what he wanted, and YOU allowed him to take it. I suggest you chalk this up to experience and remember this experience the next time you begin to allow someone to use you, for whatever reason.
Reply:Use his brother or dad.
Reply:just forget about him if you realy wont to get him back for what he done get thinking
Reply:keep stuff !! fly there!! kick him in the balls!!




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