What can i do to keep this comtrol freak away from my daughter?

he has hit her once he yells at her and he always puts her down yet he buys her flowers and gifts they are both 16 she has dated him for 2 years she also lost her virginity to him how can i break this up i kow she wants too but is afraid to

What can i do to keep this comtrol freak away from my daughter?
was her dad a control freak? Maybe she identifies that behavior with love.
Reply:Go get a restraining order on him then that way if he calls or comes near her or even trys to kiss @$$ to get her back it is a violation of restraining order %26amp; he goes to Jail! Include anybody that might help him stay in contact with her %26amp; put everyone who lives in your home on it as well. The abuse alone should grant you that Restraining order.
Reply:That's not a control freak, that's an abuser!!! Get the restraining order and also get your daughter to watch some of the movies on wife beating!!! She should get the message from that! If he's hit her while dating, she needs to realize that what he will do later will be much worse! Have you spoken to his parents? They will do 1 of several things, 1. say "not my little boy" in which case you tell them that they need to keep their little boy away from your little girl. 2. Blame your daughter in which case you tell them that you want to keep her away from him, but he keeps coming around. 3. Accept that their son has a problem. (probably that's how his dad treats his mom) and do something about him. I know that when I was growing up, if I had hit a girl, my dad would have done much worse to me!!





I have 2 married daughters, both to great guys. Before each wedding I made it plain to each guy that that was still my little girl and I would do serious damage to anyone who abused them. I did it tactfully in a light vain, but they got the message.
Reply:Tell your daughter to invite him over and be near by and have her tell him that its over and she doesnt want to be with him anymore, listen closely, or if you can watch with out being noticed. If anything happens come out and do something, or better yet, have your husband, or someone similar be near by so that he can come out. He should tell the kid to leave her alone and not to bother her anymore. The bigger the guy the better. If that doesnt work, restraing order would be my next option. Dont be afraid to use the law in your favor.
Reply:you should talk to him and make him go away





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Reply:its called jail
Reply:Go to the police station and put a restraining order on him
Reply:smith%26amp;wesson answered this question along time ago. .357 MAG


i beleive it was. just make sure you get rid of the evidence.
Reply:Do you live in one of those states that lets you shoot someone just cuz they are on your property and you feel scared?
Reply:Are you in the United States? Try calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline 1(800) 799-SAFE, same as 1 (800) 799-7233.





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Reply:..you better do something before she ends up marrying him; it will be even worse then .go talk to someone at the the police station you can get a restraining order.'put your foot down and be determined to do something before he ends up killing her;does she have a father; brother that can help protect her;if some one was hurting my child you bet I'D SHOW HIM MY BAD SIDE TOO.GET HELP! NOW ! ! !YOU ARE THE PARENT SHES STILL A CHILD.Also you should get her into some counseling 'YOU KNOW I always heard if they hit once the'll do it again' good luck '
Reply:get a restraining order? she's a minor, so i think you could probably do it for her, or go out and hurt the boy, thats what i would do, but you could get in trouble for that
Reply:You know she wants to get away from him? You need to talk with her about why and what SHE wants out of life and a relationship. What her expectations are and what she should expect in a relationship. Then I'd speak with his parents to get their perspective. That can be tricky. Just show her you support her. Listen to her concerns and give her way to deal with it. Then introduce her to a fine young marine.



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