What should I do in this situation?

After 38 yrs I met 34 yr old lady who is my ideal woman. She is similar to me and a very approachable person, she is genuine and I know she is on the same wavelength as me.





We are comfortable in each others presence and when I'm near her I really notice the comfortableness. I have never met anyone that appears to be into the same things as me and share the same personality traits.





Anyway she showed an interest so I asked her out and she said yes and then changed it to no. Months later it appearred it was still on her mind but she has pushed me away. I know we would get on well but yesterday I found out it was her work xmas party.





She was there with another staff member and kep putting her arms round the guy. I dont know if she likes him or he is just very good friends with her. There is some affinity between them.





What should I do? Walkaway or try and win her over? I don't want to buy her with flowers or gifts etc and I think it has to come from her.

What should I do in this situation?
dont give up - but dont be over attentive or jealous!! i used to like a guy who really liked me but then he just got over protective and got really mad everytime i was with another guy.





just show her youre interested but i do think its a good approach to just let things play out and if it is meant to be then it will just happen naturally :)
Reply:a faint heart never one a fair maiden, keep trying,but dont get to the stalking stage.lol .best of luck.




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