A first date, but should i bring gifts?

i've known her for awhile and am interested in her, but i do not know if that feeling is being reciprocated. We planned to go to the movies, but should i bring a flower? or is it too much and should i go empty handed?

A first date, but should i bring gifts?
Do not take anything but your charm and usual carefree self. If you have known this girl awhile she should already be aware of the kind of person you at least superficially. This will be your time to show a more deeper side to your personality and she must like you on some level she did agree to go out with you. Take her somewhere nice before or after the movies.
Reply:only go with an adorable, lovely flower..
Reply:No flower on the first date. If you do, you will look desperate, trying to hard. Instead, be a gentleman. If you are driving, open and close her door. If you guys go to diner after the movie pull and push her chair. She should be very appreciative of your gestures, needless to say that there are not very many gentleman's left.





Good luck on your date.
Reply:gifts will be overplayed. don't do it. if not a flower, nothing is ok
Reply:You don't have to get her a gift at first, just buy her everything she wants at the movies (popcorn, soda, etc.). If you have a second date, buy her a gift, like chocolate or flowers.
Reply:bring a rose definitely :)
Reply:dont bring a flower to the movies just make sure you pay for everything
Reply:Ok does she know its a first date or just going out together time? If she knows its a date definately bring flowers a bunch of exotic flowers not roses. Yet.
Reply:Yeah. Bring her a single red or pink rose.
Reply:when I first took my wife out when we started dating I showed up with 2 carnantions (white and Pink) just as a sign of affection to break the ice. She loved it, it shows that your a bit sentimental and romantic not just there to "get in her pants".


Bring her flowers of some sort at least by her reaction you will know if the feeling is there!
Reply:something small.. like a flower you just picked outside would be really nice.


personally I use to consider it necessary for a guy to bring a little present to show respect interrest but now I found a guy I really like and he proved to me that Theres A million ways to show you respect her and are interrested without material things.. the guy is broke. and he is a thief too,,,he stole my heart! jaja


the point is if it comes from the heart ANything is good!
Reply:I wouldn't bring anything. It's the first date, she isn't expecting you to bring anything for her. Soo, just pay for everything, compliment her, And, if you see something you think she might like while on the date buy it for her :) Good Luck!
Reply:Paying for the date is plenty enough.
Reply:a flower would be nice, or you could just buy her what she wants at the movie. first dates are always pretty awkward but most memerable. just do your best to keep her smiling, thats always the best way to go and be yourself for sure!
Reply:She must be a little interested if she's going to the movies with you.


I prefer one single red rose over a dozen, take her a rose or find out her favorite flower and take that, but only if she knows it's a date.


Make sure you go somewhere afterwards so you can talk, cause you can't talk in the theatre.
Reply:A flower would be nice, maybe a white rose. with the gift u give her dont go over th top, cuz it might be too much!
Reply:bring a single flower, i think that would be cute, and then make sure u pay for stuff, and just chill, don stress even if u don bring nothing it will be ite(alrite).
Reply:No gift, that is very awkward.





Just feel out the first date, and then if it goes to a second date, remember something she mentioned she liked and surprise her with that (if she mentioned her fave restaurant, take her there, if she mentioned she loves Starbucks coffee, pick one up for her on the way, etc).
Reply:Maybe take her a small bunch of flowers, i definately wouldn't go all "wedding bouquet" on her. A necklace or bracelet, if you really want. Bare in mind that it is only a first date, but a guy bought me a gift on our first date, i'd think he was really thoughtful tho.


Good Luck!
Reply:If you guys going to see a movie go empty handed otherwise you look like you trying too hard but make sure you pay for whatever you guys doing that night it more manly gesture i think, for the 2nd date and then you can bring her flowers if you will pick her up at her place that way see can put on a vase before you go out and if she offer to pay you can accept it and say the next date is my treat .
Reply:Just buy some tibits for her during the first date
Reply:oooh bring a flower!


But make up that there was someone selling them on the street or something.
Reply:it would be nice get her a tulip something different one only or somethign different then rose. i mean maybe if you know she likes them bring purple or something. that would mean alot and maybe change what attitude she had to the better.
Reply:A flower is nice, just not a whole bouquet.
Reply:i think jz let it be normal 1st ..... cause it is still 1st time.. she might shock and refuse to get out another time....



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