Hello, everyone. I'm in a complicated situation and really need some advice on this. I've met a girl, about four months ago, and I think we already have a beautiful story together as friends. I fell in love with her completely, but she doesn't love me, no matter how good friends we are.
It is far too complicated to explain here what we've been through... I've been completely honest to her, tried speaking to her in an flattering and encouraging way, dedicated A LOT of time and money to her and she knows it, given her lots of flowers and gifts, held doors open for her and gave her my seat in the subway, and I kissed her many times already. She still says I can't make her happy.
The thing is I've been hurt in my past and it's hard getting over it. She's been hurt too, and now she's cautious of anyone who tries to get near her - understandably. All of my success seems to be in making her feel a tremendous amount of pressure. I want to be less emotional... And I don't want to give up.
I'm in love. How should I express it?
well i know it is hard but you have to follow your heart, do not give up, tell her you love her, sit her down and have a talk with her about her past and yours, but whatever you do, in the end i'm sure u guys can still be friends, just say something like can we at least try? if it does not work out we can still be friends, i do not want you giving up on love, not yet.
if that does not work, then i guess it just was not meant to be. pray about it. it works.
Reply:Express it the best way you know how.
White Teeth
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