Is it true that women fall for a**holes and not the nice guy??

I have been single for 6 years; I am in good shape, not a homosexual, caring, intelligent and a homeowner. I feel that I treat women with respect and shower them with flowers and gifts because I can afford it and usually just cause it's Wednesday. So ladies, you tell me, become an a**hole or stay the nice guy??

Is it true that women fall for a**holes and not the nice guy??
stay the nice guy!!!





Yes we like the @$$holes, its as if we think we can change them and then have that sense of accomplishment or something..


but eventually we get sick of those guys, and go looking for that nice guy, thats where you come in and show the lady how she is supposed to be treated





I just switched from a**hole to nice guy - and I have learned how I am supposed to be treated.. i guess just keep ya head up, and be you - some lady will be lucky to have you
Reply:Stay the nice guy. Most women go through a "bad boy" phase, but they will eventually snap out of it. Besides, a man's pool of eligibles increases with age, so you might be better off if you wait it out.
Reply:I have been involved with a few jerks in my time and some nice guys, but you know...sometimes nice guys can become a**holes.
Reply:Your too nice man. The ladies want a challenge. Stop being such a nice guy. I bet you get the just friends a lot huh. Definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result. Be an @ss and don't give women what they want. Be cocky and funny. Find something about the woman and pick it apart in a funny way.
Reply:Stay the nice guy. It sounds like the women that you are going after are losers just like the a**holes they date. There are women out there that love the nice guys. I am one of them. I found my nice guy. Good Luck!
Reply:From a married nice guys perspective:





Stay the nice guy, but get out there and talk to some of these ladies, with nice usually comes shyness.





Be agressive with it, go out there introduce yourself and talk to them nice girls, you'd be surprised how fast you get snatched up, that's what my wife did to me.
Reply:Not true!! You should stay the nice Guy!!!!
Reply:Stay a nice guy...We need men like that around on this earth...Don't be a D*CK that just makes women hate you...
Reply:it depens on the woman. if the woman likes the outside that the inside(if she's an a**hole) than yes she will.


But if the woman likes the inside MORE than the inside than the insid(like me!) then she will only date a guy depending more on his personality than his looks.
Reply:It depends how old you are. Women generally grow out of the asshole stage in their late twenties, if they haven't then they have serious problems and are best left to the assholes until they learn their lesson.


Your not alone in that sense though, I've been properly single (by single I mean not permanently with someone) for 6 years, I'm independant, attract a lot of compliments, have got my head screwed on the right way, yet I keep being dumped for complete b*****es. I've contemplated the treat em mean and keep em keen thing too, but in the end have decided that its too much like hard work, its not me and I'd like to keep treating people how I'd like to be treated, It'll work for me one day I'm sure (forever optimistic too)
Reply:Stay a nice guy
Reply:Smart, independent woman will avoid the a**holes, and recognize a nice guy when they see one. Guys who are a**holes tend to attract either women who are as rude as they are or women whose self-esteem is low enough to keep taking the guy's nonsense. So what type of woman do you want? A quality one, or an unqualified one? Be the nice guy and get a better class of women.
Reply:the right mature girl will fall for you, the inmature will fall for the wrong guy cause she doesnt know any better, better of without her
Reply:yes cause the pick the opposite of who their parents like i did and my parents hated him and i loved him we are now married and my dad still hates him but my mom kinda likes him



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