Would i ever get my ex back ?

hi split with ex 4 weeks ago becuase of an argument at work, she got with me 3 weeks after spliting with her bf who she was with 4 years. I treated my ex like a princess cos of what she had been through with her exs. I bought her gifts flowers, chocolettes etc to make up to her and to show her that i cared for her and id do anything for her. my ex says she likes me alot and has got feelings for me but not enough to go out with me just yet. she says therefore can only give me friendship for now. she says she really likes me.some guy at work also lied to her that am married to mess things up. people at work have been spreading alot of stuff about us causing trouble. and we end up arguing i want to be with her cos i like her to much so i txt her today asking her out and she replied am sorry babe my answer still hasnt changed. so basically she said no to me. i am seeing her tommorow. she has let me down many times what do i do ? please help i cant seem to let her go, its cos i care for her

Would i ever get my ex back ?
You want the hard straight line ..?





Its time to let go and move on dude... She has told you that and, as much as we all want to believe in warm and fuzzy endings, you ALREADY know the answer to this one, don't you?





Sorry.. and good luck...





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Reply:Hi,





I am sorry this hasn't worked out the way you wanted it to. She has made it clear that she doesn't want a serious relationship with you so if you think anything of her, respect her wishes.





I know it is hard but there is nothing you can do. There is someone out there for you, it just isn't this person at the moment. If you try putting her under any pressure she will end up hating you.





Good luck.
Reply:Move on mate . . . .for your own sake. Even if you did get her back it would never be the same! Enjoy the memories that you have together, and you sound like a really nice guy who knows how to treat a lady, so you'll find these feelings again I promise!
Reply:Been there, done that,got the t shirt. Move on and stop making yourself miserable over one woman for fecks sake. Looks like a letter from the problem page of a teenage girls magazine.
Reply:ok, back off, its the only thing you have left to do. be unobtainable. ppl want what they think they cant have. its fine buying presents now and then but dont shower her. she'll only take it for granted anyway. and do you really want someone who believes gossip over what you tell her to the point you argue about it? not worth it. back off for a bit and see what she does then.
Reply:You need to ask yourself a question: "Does she like me because I give her things or does she like me for me?"





Stop sending her gives and texting her, make it clear that if she decides she would like to date you it's her move, but she'll have to contact you!


Be cordial to her when you see her, but DO NOT GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO SEE HER! When you do see her say hi then keep going DON'T DALLY!


If she loves you she will make up her mind quickly, if not you are better off.
Reply:Happens all the time, man. Get back in the swim and sort someone else out - there are plenty there
Reply:Did you actually go out with her in the first place?


It's just seems that you've dated her for a while treated her well and she's just moved on.


I think that she's way over her ex's and you and is now moving on with her life.


I can understand that you care for her and are finding it hard to let go. If you cared for her you'd let her go, so that she can move on and be happier don't try and trap her just sit back relax and enjoy the single time you have infront of you.


For now go out with the guys, enjoy yourself and have fun without commitment. Once you're over this look for a stable un-work related relationship then see how it goes.
Reply:Get your self respect together and move on. You will hurt for a while but hold your head high.





You dont care for her, you just think you do.





Move on move up and be yourself.
Reply:I feel sorry for you I know how it feels when you are that in love but it isnt going to happen. I think she has been clear and is trying to let you down gently. Not being horrible but could she have seen the ex before you again? Does sound final, try to move on and enjoy yourself. Good luck with it.
Reply:Its simple.... have some self pride... move on.
Reply:Yep been there myself, but believe me your better off letting go rather then continually torturing yourself because that's what your doing.


I know it feels like shes the only one etc, but believe me you WILL MEET someone else. You be be out and about one day and you will suddenly meet someone when you lease expect it who will be just right for you. She is out there somewhere and you will find the right person, but please don't torture yourself by chasing after this girl because she isn't for you..! I know it's easy for me to say but we've all been through it and from experience you will get over her. The sooner you accept that the sooner you can move on and get on with your life.


All the best mate.
Reply:Dear me, you sound slightly obsessed, how many questions have you posted about this on here? Maybe your acting a bit too full on and it's scaring her off...don't you think??? :-)
Reply:Hmmm! This sounds all too familiar. My fiance went thru the same thing with a woman he was interested in. He spent two years dedicated to this woman in hopes that they would end up together. He treated her better than any of her ex-husbands did. Took her out, bought her gifts, even gave her $1,500 (no strings attached) to pay towards her last divorce. She told him that she was still bruised emotionally from her past experience that she didn't feel ready to enter into another relationship. She told him that when she was ready,if nothing else came up, and the circle turned around, she MIGHT consider getting serious with him. She started to show her true colors when he met me. He realized that she wasn't who he thought she was. Now I am the one getting treated like a queen. I LOVE HIM! Best advice for you....MOVE ON and find someone that will love you back.
Reply:I think you're clearly suffocating her. This is no doubt making her feel under pressure to have the same feelings for you.





My advice is to leave her be. Let her have some space and keep your distance. If she misses you she will get in touch and try to sort things out. If she doesn't then it's time to accept that and move on.





You will definitely not win her back my smothering her.....
Reply:My opinion is if you try too hard to get her to want you she wont , lossen up a bit do more friend type of meetings untill you both feel like there is more in a relationship for you 2



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