flowers and gifts: March 2010

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Thank you present to business owner?

Im interviewing a business owner for a class project this week and need some ideas as to what to send as a THANK YOU gift. (Chocolates, flowers, fruit basket, etc)

I need all the help i can get. Thanks everyone!

Thank you present to business owner?
The card is most appropriate. BUT, if you truly can afford it, visit a classy bakery and have them gift wrap a fancy strudel. Your instincts are correct. The gift is quite professional.
Reply:Thank you, Monstur Man.

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Reply:I would send them a "Thank You" card and a gift certificate to a local restaurant (nothing that will break the bank, something casual but classy if possible).
Reply:Definitely a card would be best.
Reply:I would think sending a thank you card after the interview would be enough. If you don't think so, I would suggest a small box of chocolates, maybe something for them to put on their desk (you can see when you interview them if they collect anything), or maybe some stationery.
Reply:There are so many questions about gifts on here, if you people want to get someone a gift so bad, I like Harley-Davidson.
Reply:I think a personal note is appropriate-anything more may be seen as "bribery". Lame, I know, but we live in a world ruled by the politically correct.
Reply:I agree that a thank you note is appropriate and enough.
Reply:A sincere card is all that's required,;but if you're determined to send a gift, a box of chocolates will go over well. Even if he doesn't like chocolate, he'll be popular among his patrons until the box is empty. :)

performing arts

What was the name of The Little Rascals clip ...?

It was one of the older shows where 2 boys are in love with the teacher. One of the boys is Jackie Cooper, I think, and the other is a chubby kid named Norman.

The 3 of them are sitting on the sofa with the teacher in the middle. Norman hands her a gift like flowers or candy or something and the teacher says, "Thank you, Norman."

And Norman says, "Don't call me Norman, call me 'Chubsy-ubsy'."

I have lots of those episodes on DVD but i can't find that one because I don't know the name!

Help!

What was the name of The Little Rascals clip ...?
It might be called "Love Business"

fitness

The first time i meet my new girl friend in person?

i havent dated in a long time do i bring a gift or flowers the first time we meet to go out?

The first time i meet my new girl friend in person?
just give her a flower, most of the girls love flowers and i think its much cheaper.
Reply:No... please don't. That comes across as desperate.
Reply:In person?? You're dating someone you never met in person? Whatever floats your boat. Flowers.

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Help with 8 year old Jr Bridesmaid Gift?

Here's what everyone else is getting: 2 Bridesmaids- Swarovski Necklace and Philosophy Amazing Grace Gift Set. Flower Girl: Build a Bear with personalized LL Bean backpack, in pink of course. Actually, all 4 girls will get the necklaces (to wear in the wedding). I have no idea what to get an 8 year old. I don't think the Philosophy gift set would be a appropriate for her. Shopping is my thing, but I am SO stuck with this one.

Help with 8 year old Jr Bridesmaid Gift?
A small jewelry box would be nice, have it engraved to commemorate the date or to say thank you, so it's extra special.
Reply:Get her a necklace with a heart on it .. have it engraved.

OR .. get her a charm bracelot with a bridesmaid charm on the bracelot.
Reply:Actually, I think an 8 year old girl would like the set. She'll feel like you are treating her like a grown-up. Also, if it is the set I'm think of , it includes bubble bath and shampoo, which she probably will love.
Reply:You could get a toiletry or makeup set that is designed for younger girls, that way she feels like she is getting the same present as the other bridesmaids.

If she likes Barbies, you could get the wedding Barbie. Or, get a Build-A-Bear for her too, maybe a Bride bear.
Reply:If you are in the US what about one of those American Girl Dolls ?

http://www.americangirl.com/
Reply:What kind of girl is she? is she into music? books? art?

If she's into music, get her concert tickets or something (age approrpiate, of course. Hannah Montanna maybe?)

If books are her thing, maybe a gift certificate to Barnes and Nobles?

I dunno, it all depends on what the kid is like.
Reply:I have also seen silver jewelry or keepsake boxes with the name engraved on the top. Those are very pretty and would be appropriate for an 8 yr old.
Reply:Yes, I'm sure she'd like the Build-A-Bear, too.

She'd also like a trip to Libby Lu's, some kind of tweeny shop in the mall, I've seen lots of 8-12 yr old girls flip for that store. They do makeovers, hair stuff, nails, cutesy shirts and stuff, make them all little princesses.
Reply:Get the 8 year old a build-A-Bear as well my 8 yr old loves hers
Reply:How about a lip gloss kit and tickets to a Hannah Montanna concert?
Reply:I have a sister about that age. Does she like dolls, art, or the Barbie movies (like Fairytopia or the Nut Cracker)?
Reply:Things Remembered (stores in the mall or online) has beautiful silver photo albums that you can have personally engraved with her name. In it, you could put several photos from the wedding, including single shots of just her in her Jr. Bridesmaid dress. She will love to have a tangible momento of that day, and she'll enjoy showing it to her friends. We gave my ring-bearer nephew one for our wedding, and he loved it! I think it made him feel grown up, and that he was special on that day, too. You will probably end up with shots of her and her family at the reception, too, to fill it up. Good luck to you, and congratulations on your wedding! : )
Reply:why not a build a bear too?

barbie or dolls

earings if ears are piecred

dvds
Reply:Giftcards are always awesome...
Reply:Ask her mom if there's something she's been wanting or would definitely love to have; and also check with her mom before getting her any kind of make-up item.
Reply:get her an ipod i think she'll love to personalize it with her own music :) something in a cute color maybe pink and ipod nano is amazing coz she can download movies on it too.
Reply:You could get her a necklace with her initial on it or a bracelet with a heart.

super nanny

What are the best sites to send flower to singapre?

I live in Saudi Arabia and wanna send a gift and flower for somebody's birthday in Singapore.

Recommendation?

What are the best sites to send flower to singapre?
Go to your local florist...if you live in khobar go to narina....i think they might help you with that.....

or try these sites

www.flowersonlyinternational.com

www.SingaporeFlowerShop.com

http://www.giftsflorist2000.com/

http://www.indiangiftsportal.com/send-gi...

http://flower.localstreets.com

http://www.singaporeflowerstore.com/

http://www.florist.com/floristcom8/

http://www.globalflowerdelivery.com/Sing...
Reply:Stay away from singaporeflowershop.com. They charged my credit card for an order, yet did not deliver flowers, nor reply to any of my emails. Scam operation. Beware. Report It

Reply:1800flowers.com I always use them to send my flowers and they do a wonderful job!
Reply:http://www.fareastflora.com/

skin disease

Did i do something wrong?

Is it stupid to write the name of the person I am making a CD for on the CD?

I like to give a CD compilation that I make instead of flowers usually on the first date. Is it stupid to write her name (FROM/TO) on the CD? Also, if you are a girl would you rather have a CD as a gift or flowers?

Is it stupid to write the name of the person I am making a CD for on the CD?
no, its sweet and more personal if to write her name on it. i would rather have a CD. it takes more time and thought to make a CD, and flowers die anyway.
Reply:awww! cute!
Reply:when i burn cd's i put people's name on them so no that is not stupid.

I would rather have a cd than flowers that are going to die in 2-3 days.
Reply:I think it would be cool to get a cd because the type of music a person listens to tells a lot about them.
Reply:flowers. you don't know what kind of music she likes so you are basically just giving her something YOU want.
Reply:flowers dude, you can't go wrong with those
Reply:give her (i no it wasnt a choice but) chocolate but if i had to chose from the 2 i would choose flowers

Shoes

Did I Do Something Wrong?

I asked this girl out to my senior prom by sending her 18 red roses with the question on them. Next day she didnt talk to me or acknowledge me at all. After school i texted her and she said she wanted to go with someone else. I was fine with that but now she wont talk to me and she never even thanked me for the flowers. Excuse me for sending someone a really great gift ($100 flowers by the way), i hate being such a nice guy and getting **** in return.

Did I Do Something Wrong?
Aww...there should be more guys like you out there! Don't stop being a nice guy...most girls would appreciate it! Obviously you deserve better than her anyway! You will find someone else, and I'm sure you will have a wonderful time at prom! :-)
Reply:Please don't stop being that nice guy, you will eventually find a woman that will appreciate you.
Reply:You know some people are just plain old selfish. The least she could have done was say "thank you", and she didn't even do that. I tell you this much though, I can almost promise u that her day is coming, not so much that she didn't go with u to the prom, but her lack of appreciation for the gesture. Please don't change because of the ignorance of others. you stay true to who u r, which is obviously a nice guy, and there is nothing in the world with being nice, you treated her the way u would want someone to treat u. That is what counts, and that is what u WILL be rewarded for. I can promiseu that.
Reply:Honestly, it's not you, but her! She just doesn't see you that way, though she certainly could have been more polite about it! There are plenty of women who would be impressed by such a gift. That being said, though, I hope you have learned a very important (and expensive) lesson about money here and that you won't be so quick to spend so much money in the future on something that isn't a sure thing.
Reply:Two issues:

1- The amount of $ you spent on the roses. It was a decision you made to spend it, and should have no strings attached. In fact, you should be happy merely with your own gallantry and not need anything in return. Nobody is influenced by roses or jewelry so don't spend any money in future, save it for things you want.

2- I suspect she was overwhelmed and slightly frightened by the roses and had no idea how to respond. She may have been freaked out, felt she was under an unwanted obligation to reward you in some way, and therefore avoided you.
Reply:well you didnt have to spend THAT much money on a girl trying to get her to go to the prom with you. one rose would have been enough and you should have known that there was a 50% chance she was going to say no

but dont text her and dont even bother you time with someone like her who is not greatful. you deserve better.
Reply:She's just not the right one for you. Sometimes its that simple. No you did nothing wrong. And kudoes to you for putting it out there. We all suffer from rejection at some point in out lifes and I don't care if your brad pitt. I'm sure he had his day or two before he became famous. Its a part of life. She's just not interested and give it some time before it passes. In the mean time don't call her or text her. Just ignore her. If she's truly a friend she'll come around and if not oh well. There's plenty of nice and I mean NICE other fish in the sea.
Reply:Maybe she just wanted to be friends. You asking her out could have ruined it.

loan

Plastic Roses??

Prologue: I've never gotten a gift of flowers before from anyone before in my life.

Story: The other night I had a dream that my boyfriend had a gift for me. He was on his way to work and stopped by to give it to me. I was really happy when he handed me a long box because, as we all know, they usually contain fresh-cut beautiful long-stemmed roses. So he gives me this box, kisses me, and says he has to go to work. After he's gone I open it and it has one of those stupid plastic dusty, dumb roses you get from a crafts store in it!!!?!?!?!??!??

Question: What the H3LL does that mean?

Plastic Roses??
Plastic roses symbolizes false sentiments. Look at in the dream how you were disappointed. You called them "stupid" and "dumb." He may say nice things to you, even say he loves you, but he doesn't mean it.
Reply:you should ask him if anything is wrong or something.

maybe the dream is wrong though

you should also see how he reacts now to you an how he did before.

keep an eye on him

or just tell him your friend got a plastic rose from her boyfriend and how cheesy and mean it was

maybe it'll stop him or somethin
Reply:I think your boy friend is not really in love with you and something in your dream is saying ;; maybe one day he will tell you Bye
Reply:To dream that you receive a gift, indicates that you are being rewarded and recognized for your generosity and giving nature. You are held in high esteem by those around you.?

I am unsure what /plastic/ roses mean but

To see roses blooming in your dream, signifies faithfulness in love and the arrival of a much joyous occasion. Roses also symbolize love, passion, femininity, and romance, particularly if they are red roses. If you see a white rose, then it symbolizes virginity, pureness, and secrecy. It you see a yellow rose, then it refers to infidelity or jealousy.

puppy teeth

Got my feelings hurt recently?

On Mothers Day, my daughter %26amp; her kids didn't remember me. No gift, no flowers, no card, no visit.

They are buying their first house, and thinking about that, not other things, like holidays.

In a couple of days, I am going to visit. Do you think I should point out that I have a birthday coming up?.

I was kind of thinking about saying something like "My birthday is at the end of this month, you know. I am reminding you now, because it really hurt my feelings that nobody remembered me on Mothers Day."

Should I say that, or just wait %26amp; hope she remembers me? She will be moving into her new house the week before my birthday, %26amp; I am afraid she will forget me again.She's my only surviving child. Aside from my husband, if I get a present at all, it would have to come from her.

I am not mercinary, not looking for a huge gift. But, a little thing, just to show me that she remembered would mean a lot.

What would you do?

Got my feelings hurt recently?
awww....thats sad but i feel for u. u should confront her and say what u want. i know that it would upset my mom if i did that to her. and of course ur birthday is coming up. u need some sign or anything from her to show she cares. even though she has been so busy she needs to show u some luv. (no offence if im affending her or something). u deserve that. mothers do everything for us and sacrifice so much. the least we could do is atleast a phone call or a card or anything. i knw u dont ask for much which is really great of u and i respect u alot but seriously u have to remind her even if she thinks it makes u sound selfish or watever she would think. she's probably under alot of stress. so be kool about it. and i think u should say the line that u were going to say. alrighty well take care and good luck. just know that god remembers u everyday!
Reply:Why don't you invite her to your house for a birthday tea ?
Reply:oh dear, i know how you feel. I dread my birthday every year as its a case of will my family remember or not. Two years ago there was a serious family crisis and no one remembered till about a week later. I spent the evening in tears. Even for them just to have said happy birthday would have been enough. its not about presents its just about them remembering a special day in your life. Now about a week before my birthday i usually say something like im thinking of going for a meal for my birthday is there anywhere new opened i should try? Even if you dont go for a meal it remind them its your birthday. Unless your daughter reminds you outright that its her birthday i wouldnt come outright and say its my birthday what are you getting. just keep dropping little hints if you can.
Reply:Really feel for you there kiwi--no-one...but NO-ONE should forget they came into this world via their mother. There is no excuse big enough, no emergency dire enough, no holiday important enough for your daughter not to have bought and delivered you a nice card on mother's day. Its all very well being busy moving house and all that that entails--it is a very trying time for all concerned, i accept that...but we should not forget the important people in our lives--and to my mind, bricks and mortar, painting and scrubbing do not even come close to visiting a mother on that special of all day's in the year. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY KIWI--FROM US ON HERE, TO YOU OUT THERE:-))
Reply:Maybe just say, " I was wondering if you could all come up (weekend of your birthday) to go out to dinner for my birthday. Then you don't have to bring up mother's day. Did you call and wish her a happy mother's day?
Reply:That is the scariest thing of getting old when the children starts to have their own family there is a big possibility they will start ignoring you. But try to have a little party and invite all the people you love.
Reply:yes make a joke of it

thats just awful
Reply:Ask your daughter to spend the day with you as its your birthday.That would not sound so mercenary.
Reply:Sorry to be blunt, but I think you should grow up and stop acting like a little spoilt child.

Moving home is a huge and a very stressful and time consuming experience, yet all you are interested in is yourself. I would be more concerned in asking her if there was anyway I could help her, rather than whether I got a present for mothers day or my birthday.
Reply:You know it probably isn't the answer you want to hear, but don't worry about it. Letting the pain get to you is just going to tire you out and you don't want that. Show them that you can go on, on your own without them and they will see that they should acknowledge you on that very special day. By the way happy late mothers day too you!

Reebok

What is a flower, a drink, and a gift/present that start with a "k"?

The answer is not one word, I just need to know a flower that starts with a "k" and a name of a drink that starts with a "k" and a gift/present that starts with a "k"

What is a flower, a drink, and a gift/present that start with a "k"?
Flowers:Kale

Kochia Scparia

kniphofia

Kunzia Tridentate

Katsura Tree

Kangaroo Paw

Kiss Gazanics

Kew Broom

Knotweed

Kingcup

Kidney Vetch

Kiwi Vine

Knapweed

Drinks:

1. Kahlua

2. Kahlua Frost

3. Kahlua Party Punch

4. Kalte Ente (Cold Duck)

5. Kamikaze

6. Kentucky Eggnog

7. Killer Margs

8. King Louie

9. Knock Me Down and **** Me

10. KNOCK OUT Strong 2 Simple Absinthe

11. KNOCK OUT Strong 1 Beginners Absinthe

12. KNOCK OUT: Strong 1 Beginners Absinthe

13. Kolsch

Gift: 1. Kaleidascope

2. Kitten

3. Kite

4Kazoo

5. Key to your heart charm
Reply:Kahlua--coffee liqueur

Flowers:

Kadsura

Kaempferia

Kalanchoe

Kalimeris

Kalmia (Mountain Laurel)

Kalmiopsis

Kalopanax

Kelseya

Kerria

Kigelia (sausage tree)

Kirengeshoma

Kitaibela

Kleinia

Knautia

Knightia

Kniphofia

Koeleria (junegrass)

Koelreuteria (golden rain tree)

Kohleria

Kolkwitzia (beautybush)

Kosteletzkya

Kunzea

Drinks:

Kahlua

Kamikaze Kool

Key Largo Cooler

Gifts:

Kite
Reply:King's-spear flower, Kamakazi, kitchen magnet.
Reply:kalanchoë blossfeldiana flaming Katy (flower)

Kahlua Butterball

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Ingredients:

1 oz Kahlua

Butterscotch schnapps

Fill with Milk

Mixing instructions:

Start with Kahlua, add Butherscotch Schnapps to taste, fill glass with milk

gift-Hershey KISSES, kite, knives, knitted sweater, scarf or gloves.
Reply:Flower - King's spear

Drink - Kahlua

Gift - Knick-knacks, kite
Reply:Ah, hell, just buy a bunch of carnations, open a beer, and listen to a new cd!
Reply:flower = calendula kablouana

drink = kahlua

gift = kite
Reply:flower=king's spear

drink=kaluah

gift=keds (its sneakers)
Reply:kamikazee drink

kite for gift

k for flower?
Reply:There are no flowers that start with K

loan

What should I do for Valentines day?

Alright so here is the thing I've been hanging out with this girl who I have gotten really close to. Not at a dating point yet but we both know that we like each other and have said it and basically spend alot of time together and talk all the time, and as valentines day comes up I ask you this question. I've been trying to decided whether to get her a gift or flowers or anything at all and wasn't sure what I should do. She told me just now that she got me something just cause she knew I wanted it really bad and would like it alot but not to think of it as a V day gift or anything just as a gift...1 what do I do for V day and 2 what does the gift thing mean?

What should I do for Valentines day?
you should just get her a teaddy bear, some chocolate and some flowers,

and a nice sweet card :D

c++

Valentines Day Date?

So I'm going on a date for valentines day with this girl. I am doing the whole dinner thing and then going out for an entertainment show. My question is should I get her some flowers or some kind of valentines gift? Some info you need before you post your answer:

-This will be our first date although we've been talking alot.

- I didnt plan it to be on valentines but it is because that was the only day available for the show.

- I'm not looking to get serious with this girl. More or less just date.

- I dont think she knows we are going, not because its valentines day but because this was the only day for the show and I thought it would be a good date. Telling her might make her think I'm a jerk as well...

I feel like I need to get her a gift or flowers just because its on valentines day but if it where any other day I wouldnt get her flowers, etc. What are your thoughts, guys/girls? All thoughts welcome!

Valentines Day Date?
Dinner, flowers AND a show? All on the first date? And you don't wanna get serious? Your actions aren't matching your intentions. You might wind up seriously confusing her later if she thinks you're really into her and then you don't do anything this elaborate again.

You might want to trade the flowers for something less serious, like a small Valentine's card, or nothing at all if it's kind of a fancy dinner or expensive show. Also if she'll have to hang on to the flowers for the rest of the night, that might suck.
Reply:Trying to think as a Gentleman here ( the Army tries to make all of their officers into them ). Not as a guy on a Valentines date.

1. Dinner and a show. Flowers yes preferably a corsage but any arrangement if you can't get one in time.

2. If you are picking her up at her home or work chocolates are a good idea as well. If at work a larger box as her etiquette will require her to share them. If she is meeting you Flowers only. Reason is otherwise she has to much to carry.

3. No gifts of jewellery on the first date.
Reply:cd
Reply:I agree with Shawn S... Thats alot to do on a first date and its valentines day...you might end up confusing her, and you might end up leading her on...and her feelings might get hurt.
Reply:well if both of you have a sense of humor you should get a box of valentines( the ones you had in Kindergarden) find one thats not going to cross emotions and get a flower like a daisy, that shows your thoughtful but not extremely commited and then add a hershey kiss to the card. It'll just break the ice, or if no sense of humor she may think it stupid...

I personally would love a guy who doesnt go to the extreme of having to impress me. Just be fun and different...

Be your self!!!!!!
Reply:I think that it's a good idea to probably get her some flowers, because it's a nice gesture and ofcourse because it's Valentine's day. Though just because you happen to being out on V-Day, doesnt mean you should feel obliged to get her anything. Personally, if I were in her position, I'd find flowers nice.

Good luck on the date!
Reply:because it is valentines day, just get her a single red rose.it is sweet and small.
Reply:Don't get her anything extravagant, but maybe a simple rose or carnation would be sweet, or a small box of chocolates. If you don't want to get serious with her, it might be best to just give her something small, like a Hershey kiss or a small box of conversation hearts. It's cute, thoughtful and polite, but probably won't make her as excited as a flower.

Whatever you feel is appropriate.
Reply:I would get her a single long stem rose. That's all.
Reply:One rose and a box of chocolates
Reply:get her some chocolates
Reply:i think you should just get her a couple of flowers. that sounds sweet for a first date=]

good luck!
Reply:you should get her flowers, or candy ect. anyways. girls love that. if you are not that into her dont take her.. if you dont know yet.. get the candy

yahoo finance

What is a great suprise gift for my wife?

I've run out of ideas, lol. Please list something other than flowers, candy, the usual gifts. Thanks

What is a great suprise gift for my wife?
Depends on how long you been together. Think about what she is interested in. You will have to think long and hard about that one. You have to listen to what she says. Women love to give hints to see if you are listening. So keep your ears open. If she has a favorite tv show buy the dvd collection (if they have it on dvd) Show up at her job out of nowhere and take her to lunch or better yet plan a picnic and have lunch on her job. Maybe a weekend trip. Is there a place she always wanted to go? Try these things and see what works. Good luck!!

visual arts

Which business would work out better, flower shop or gift shop?

please help me!

Which business would work out better, flower shop or gift shop?
I own a Floral Shop that also sells gifts... DO BOTH!!!

Many times we put gift items into the flower arrangements.

Also... providing both gives your customers more choices.
Reply:With a gift shop, you could offer a lot more products such as flowers, balloons, toys, holiday items, present wrapping, etc... and then you wouldn't be so dependent on customers who only need flowers.

Then again, you could do wedding flowers as a specialty flower business and make a lot of $$$. I worked for my friend who owns a wedding floral biz and he works out of his garage so he doesn't even need to rent a shop.

Good luck!
Reply:well, which do you like better? i think there are lots of flower shops. if you do a gift shop, make it unique, different from the others. offer special services that others don't. you can even offer plants %26amp; flowers in it and you would have the best of both. good luck!!
Reply:it really depends on a lot of factors like location, cost of rent, etc. etc. Flowers are perishable, though. You might consider that.
Reply:i would think a gift shop because you can put flowers in it and double your business

makeup tips

How do I sell my items?

I crochet items with thread: doilies, crosses, crinoline girls, etc. and was curious how to go about selling my items (consignment or resale) to local flower and gift shops. Would it be best to build up my stock before approaching them, or would it be ok to just give them a taste of what I have to offer and what is available to them? Can anyone help me?

How do I sell my items?
Consignment selling is a start. Go to the local flower shop and ask them if you can have your item displayed 'for sale', make them a good deal and see what comes of it.

A friend of mine did it with African Beads and he made some bucks that way.

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make up

You love red flower being first gift from your lover?

Yes.

You love red flower being first gift from your lover?
no i like black flowers

make up

Poll question for the guys ... what do you want in a gift?

One guy friend of mine says that men do not like to get flowers as a gift. I am wondering how many guys agree.

Poll question for the guys ... what do you want in a gift?
Flowers are nice. Depends on how secure he is and if he actually likes flowers. I like the thought behind the gift much more than the gift. If someone remebered that I said I liked something once. Or paid attention to things I like and got some (like Zero brand candy bars) Stuff like that. But that's just me.
Reply:Flowers are for women and male wimps. You wanna get a cool guy gift: go to a cool whiz bang gadget shop.
Reply:Golf clubs. It just can't be said too often. Golf clubs are a great gift for a man. Golf clubs...and bourbon.
Reply:Two hot girls in a hot tub.
Reply:If you cant give him a BJ, then a video game would work. We ALL want BJs though, save your money!!!
Reply:Flowers = Waste of money! Get me something cool!

Depending on the guy tools are good! And FOOD rules! Cook for me!
Reply:If I were to get flowers, and I have in the past, I would appreciate the gesture but would have very little use for flowers. I tend to like practical gifts.
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Reply:Wrapping made from silk and filled with breast and bum.

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What is a good gift for bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girl, and ring bearer?

I am getting married in June and I have 5 bridesmaids, 5 groomsmen, 1 flower girl and 2 ring bearer. I have no idea what to get any of them for a gift and I want to get them something nice but not real exspencive.

What is a good gift for bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girl, and ring bearer?
Get your bridesmaids amtching jewelry for them to wear on the wedding day...necklances and/or bracelets or earrings. The flower girl and ring bearers will be happy with a stuffed animal and some coloring books. As for the groomsmen, let your fiance worrying about them...he can get them something monogrammed, like cuff links or a flask, or get something more personal for each guy. No reason for you to worry about everything...
Reply:I am getting married in march and I got my 5 Bridesmaid and Flowergirl sterling silver heart necklaces with the first initial engraved on them.... go to www.weddingchannel.com then go to store..... they have loads of stuff for reasonable pricing... good luck
Reply:At my wedding I gave the Bridesmaids earrings to wear at the wedding, and I gave the Groomsmen Silver Flasks with their initials engraved on them. The Flower girl and Ring Bearer got gift certificates to Toys'r'Us to spend on themselves.

Congrats and Good Luck!
Reply:Give the children cash gifts.
Reply:You should check out two sites- thingsremembered.com and gifts.com They both offer a wide range of ideas and prices. Sounds like you have a budget to work with, so get ideas and if you are crafty then try making it yourself. Or there is always the "after the honeymoon thank you BBQ" idea too. Anyway, good luck and congrats!
Reply:buy cheap photo frames and put individuals photos of them looking gorgeous on your wedding day.
Reply:I like the idea of giving the bridesmaids/groomsmen something they can use after the wedding. For the girls a nice relaxig bathset or some gift certificates to a nice restaurant, picture frames, candles are all beautiful gifts another thing that would be special would be to try and personalize an aspect of each gift, whether it be a different scent for each girl, color etc. For groomsmen, engraved flask, swiss army knife, grooming kit or a beer set (corona has one with a large bottle of beer, an opener, two glasses and a beer bucket) For the kids a gift card for books, toys is great or if you know them well pick up the toy/book for them.
Reply:You could get the bridesmaids matching necklaces that go with their bridesmaid dresses. Don't know about the others.
Reply:i did personalized photo albums from Things Remembered. and i got the jewelry for the bridesmaids that i wanted them to wear. the groomsmen got personalized grooming kits, or something.
Reply:i got a necklace %26amp; earring set (from macy's) for my bridesmaids, engraved pocket watches for the groomsmen (theknot.com), engraved locket for the flowergirl (things remembered), and an engraved yo-yo for the ringbearer (theknot.com).

hope this helps!
Reply:bridesmaids usually get jewelry/purse for the wedding day. groomsmen can get a variety of gifts %26amp; i would just get small gifts for the kids of stuff you know they like. something similar to a bday gift. theknot.com has some good gift ideas.
Reply:I got my bridesmaids and flower girls jewelry to wear during the wedding. The groomsmen got silver dollar coins (about $25 from the mint) with the year we got married. I didn't have any ring bearers but the coins would work as well as keepsakes.
Reply:Congratulations! My sister gave me a nice, rare CD that she used in her wedding - priceless because of the significance in relation to the event.

My best friend gave me a painting that someone from her family made - priceless because its something not easily done, nor available in the stores.

For the kids - they were given gift certificate to a toystore/bookstore. The kids loved it.

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Happy mother's days!!! Isn't it just the best gift of life to be a mother?

Tell me about your mother's day, what do you get? do you spoil yourself a little bit at least?

I have gotten a ticket to see a mexican singer i love, some flowers, and the gift made by my son in the school.

Happy mother's days!!! Isn't it just the best gift of life to be a mother?
My greatest gift is having my little girl. We tried for three years, suffered two miscarriages, only to have a little girl with a hole in heart. She had it repaired, and now is just like any other toddler. God has blessed me and my family.

We're going to the zoo on Sunday!
Reply:I have 3 children ages,11 and 14 and 21.I usually only get what my kids make at school and they tell me happy Mothers day.My Husband say that I am not his Mother and don't feel he should have to take the kids to get me Something.All 3 of my kids are Wonderful.
Reply:my hubby gave me a card from my baby's with there hand prints, flowers, a thank you card from him, that says whenever he sees me with our children he falls in love with me all over, a lobster dinner, my older kids, one cleaned the house one did laundry, they all got me a card my eldest gave me a blown up photo of me and my dad who has passes, I just love my family, and never can figure why i deserve such a loving caring bunch, but i thank god everyday
Reply:Happy Mother's Day!!! Being a mother is the greatest gift!

This is my second mother's day...last year I got jewlery! Can't wait to see what this year brings!

=)
Reply:Yes it is... but wait- isn't it way too early for you to have gotten all the material gifts already? I'll go check my calendar.

%26gt; Yup- too early.... I thought I missed something... you got me worried for a second there...lol.
Reply:It's the best ever..I told my husband what I want he going to get it for me.my daughter(7 years old) made me some flower in a vase..and my mom said she got me something want tell me what it is but best thing of all is waking up to my four children in the morning and taking care of them..it's the best.
Reply:It really is the best gift ever knowing that you brought someone into the world they are your creation.

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Me and my bf have ben together almost 3 months should i get him a gift?

okay so we have been off and on for almost a year and now 3 months with no break. He is a really romantic kinda guy and is always surprising me with gifts. He send flowers to me and teddy bears etc. so our 3 months is just around the cornor and knowing him i know he will probably get me something. do i get him something too and if so what?

Me and my bf have ben together almost 3 months should i get him a gift?
if you really like him you should return the favour on occasion, it will show him that what he does for you is apreciated. with guys money is not what counts, if i was given some thing small and sweet with alot of thought by my girlfriend, i would find it the best thing i could have had. :)
Reply:You get him something if there is an occasion for it - his birthday, Christmas, etc
Reply:even though its normally occasions you should get your boyfriend a gift, if you know that he's that kind of guy to get you a present then i think you should get him the gift. Your thinking about it already so you should treat him. big or small he will appreciate it more because it came from you.

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Boyfriends parents?

well we broke up but its been bothering me!

my exboyfriends parents hated me! i did everything for them, id make dessert of something, clean up dinner, wash dishes, put them away, i washed his moms car twice, i did laundry, ive picked up, ive set the table, ive given her flowers, christmas birthday gifts, im always OVER polite.

they were so mean to me why?

Boyfriends parents?
Sometimes there are just folks who think NO ONE is good enough for their child. Maybe these are those type of people. Just remember, if you marry their son; you marry the family too. So it's probably best that the two of you have split. Try to have fun right now just going out. No need in finding a new guy so soon. Yet, a new fellow might just be the answer you need.
Reply:It's probably just because they didn't want you to be with thier son. Being nice to them isn't gonna change their mind. It's best to just forget about it now that you've broken up with him. It's not worth worrying. And think of it this way, just imagine how bad they'd treat you if you guys had gotten married or something. Just don't worry about it. They all didn't deserve you.
Reply:Maybe they're over-protective of their son and will never like any girl who tries to take him away from them.
Reply:if the parent is overly protective then thats why she dosent want her little boy to get hurt dont worry it happen to me!!!

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What do men get for Valentine's day?

I was at the store yesterday and guys were all buying flowers, candy, and gifts but I saw no women buying anything for the men. What do men get for Valentine's day from women?

What do men get for Valentine's day?
I didnt think i was gonna see my man on V day, but he gat to come over, and so i made him a big heart valentine and hugged him...alot!!!!

(details excluded as to what he got me..hehe)

his real present from me has to wait....

we didnt have a lot of time.
Reply:You didn't see any women because women buy their gifts BEFORE Valentine's Day! I bought my bf a card, chocolates, a V-Day mug, a robe, framed b%26amp;w pix of us, a remote for the garage door %26amp; made dinner reservations (we split dinner).
Reply:i gave my husband a card and candy.
Reply:i got a watch
Reply:I guess it depends were you live at. I'm in Louisville, KY. Women around here buy their men V-days gifts (even thought most don't want you to) The gift range any where from cards to flowers to jewelery to big screen TVs. Mu Dh and I didn't have much money this year so we gave each other candy. I made I cd of our favorite loves songs, lit candles and we had ouself a lot of fun.
Reply:Well, most women don't wait til the last minute;) perhaps that's why you missed them but I got my husband new headphones for his r.p.g
Reply:Sloppy Joes and his favorite beer. Cards from the kids, purchased by me. And a little something after they went to bed... ;-)
Reply:My “well thought out” gift to Him = $100

His “last minute mad-dash” gift to Me = $12

The fact that he’s not getting “any” for the next two weeks = PRICELESS

Men suck!

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How can I get this chick to like me more?

I have tried flowers and tried gifts and the best I have got from her is a short french kiss.

I don't know what to do now, do you think I should give her a pay increase?

How can I get this chick to like me more?
try being sweet. sometimes romance can get you alot farther than gifts.
Reply:Give her what she wants, some d)ick
Reply:The truth is there is no way to get anyone to like you more...stop being her doormat and find someone who not only likes you but respects you...you deserve better than her.
Reply:I think you have done great. Hopefully, you don't expect anything that would cost her respect from you afterward. That would be a setback. Just get more kisses, then who knows?
Reply:yeah i would

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How do I stop my husbands ex wife from ruining my marriage?

This woman sends me messages that my husband is emailing her, that he is sending her flowers and other gifts, that he has a secret email address that I don't know about so they can keep in touch. She sends me messages that she has talked to his family and they all hate me, that he talks to her and makes fun of me...this goes on daily...he denies everything buy I don't know what to believe. She has vandalized my car, she's made complaints to my professional licensing board about me...but she's never met me...she is determined to destroy my life because I married her ex. How do I find the truth and stop her from ruining my marriage?

How do I stop my husbands ex wife from ruining my marriage?
Based on the fact that there has been some destruction of property and harassment, go get a restraining order. If she contacts you after that, turn her in. You never know, a few days in county jail with the fine people in there might give her just the attitude adjustment that she needs.

As for if your husband is really doing what the ex claims he is, you're just going to have to trust your own judgment.
Reply:save all the messages and show your husband them. put a block on her in your emails. and go to the cops and file a restraining order.
Reply:I fought fire with fire.

End of story.
Reply:WOW what a horrible woman that one is. bitter betty for sure. these kinds of women are dangerous to both male and female alike. .. Get a restraining order out on her and make sure she is not allowed to communicate with you or your hsuband in any fashion what so ever even if her house is burning down. and she is not to come near your work or residence or anywhere you may be .

To hell with her. You have your own life now. She won't get the message by you telling her to stop. a woman of this calibur needs a stronger message sent to her. So save your breath in trying to reason with her and let the courts decide this for her she chose this fate.
Reply:Tell her to stop, or the next assenine thing she does, will

be her last !

If she doesn't believe you, tell her to "Watch Closely" !
Reply:Obviously she is getting him by getting to you. Block her email address so she can not email you, and tell her whats she does not want to hear, "That he is your husband and not hers, for a good reason". Do not listen to "he said.... she said" nonsense, it will drive you crazy and is usually 100% false. It has been said a million times and it is true "KILL HER WITH KINDNESS". This will drive most shallow people crazy.

good luck
Reply:Time to file a harrasment law suit against her. Collect all the crap she has sent you then go see a good lawyer.

The fact that you give any creadence to this woman shows that her plan is working. Stop being a doormat and get to work. Your lawyer can tell you the best plan of action.

Luck
Reply:Take legal action - get a court order.
Reply:Get a laywer and restraining order against her for contacting you in any way.
Reply:She wants you to doubt him. Ask her why he's married to you if he WANTS to be with her? It seems that if he wanted to be married to or even BE with his ex that he would be. He IS married to you and the only one who has a problem with it is her.

She needs to be reported for harassment and you BOTH need to make the report together. He has to send her a message that her behavior is not okay.
Reply:First turn her in about her weird behavior.

Get a restraining order.

Don't be one of those on Cold Case,

and we never know who did you in.

Never talk to her directly. keep her guessing if

you are getting her messages or not.

Keep in mind people like this can be dangerous.

It's not a game. Be careful.

Then concentrate on your husband.

Spend more time together.

Pretend little miss trouble doesn't exist.

If all else fails , get a private eye.
Reply:First, I'd tell her that she is STALKING you and that if she doesn't leave you alone, you will call the police and have her arrested for stalking. Second, I would talk to your husband's family as to whether any of them have had any contact with her. She sounds unstable and I'd be careful. If she vandalized your car, you should have called the police then. She does sound mentally deranged. Your husband needs to do more to help the situation. HE should tell her that if she continues to harrass you, he will have her arrested. And do it. If this destroys your marriage, it's HIS fault. He should be backing you up on this.

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I love my fiancee, but I don't know what to do?

We used to have a great and enjoyable relationship with eachother where we'd go do all sorts of things all the time. Since school has started, everything changed. Last semester, she spent most of the time with me and things were good (when school wasn't stressing her out). This semester though she never seems to want to come to see me (we live about 45min. away). I try to see her whenever possible. I even bring flowers and other gifts just to be a little romantic and brighten her day. but she has cats (i'm allergic) and nowhere for me to sleep so I can't stay long. She tells me she loves me, she misses me, that I'm the most important thing in her life, and I know she means it because it usually makes her cry. It's when I say I'm unable to do something when she asks or when she's just really stressed out from her day, she just wants to end everything and will say that she's not happy with us. then the next day she'll say she's sorry and can't live without me. I'm lost here.

I love my fiancee, but I don't know what to do?
It sounds like she's starting to feel like she's losing control of her situation at school, or at least the stress it's causing her. Everyone's felt that way before, but we all deal with it a different way because we're made different, different combination of hormones causing us to react in all sorts of ways. What I'm saying here is that while you should keep trying to understand what she's going through, you should also make her aware of how its effecting others around her. Ask her how it feels to lose out to a bad mood, then ask her if she really wants to keep repeating that again. I have a feeling that she'll probably tell you no, in which case, just tell her how confused she's made you feel, and ask her to please make an attempt to release that stress elsewhere for both your sake and hers.

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I'm a girl who's been with a guy for a few years now, so I think I have a pretty good idea where this is coming from. I also remembering acting out during a period of time when things at work weren't going so well, something I kept under wraps when I was around him. One thing I do remember during that time though, was that I cared about him deeply and most of the things I said and did, I just didn't mean. Meh, we all say stupid things when we're emotional... there's not much you can do unless you can get through to the person and have him or her be aware of what they're doing.

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I just read the additional details you added. I really sympathize with you, it's a pretty tough situation to be in.

You're right about the insecurity issues that she has, from everything you've described her doing (the snooping, the excuse that you're too good for her, etc.), those issues sounds like the root of her emotions and her actions. Does she realize that though? That the things she does is because of this? or is she only aware of it peripherally when you tell her?

To be honest, I'm surprised that you are so extremely patient with her, (props to you) but you need to be more stern. She needs to hear from you that if she doesn't think that she's good enough for you then she'll never be because she doesn't believe it. The power of belief is at the core of who we are, and if she doesn't think highly enough of herself, then she'll always have a bone to pick with you or anyone who's around her. I'm not saying she's doing this intentionally, but in a very big way, she's refusing to let go/forgive herself for things she feels she was responsible for.

I know she's your fiancee, and you obviously love her enough to pose this question, but you have to admit to yourself that this problem probably won't be solved by living together. Once you two are married, you're still going to have individual jobs --- issues that haven't been resolved before marriage won't be erased when the rings have been exchanged, in fact it'll be magnified. No amount of drastic environment change will alter how she feels internally.

You just have to make the best judgement possible. Try and talk to her about all these things, make her realize where it is coming from. Actions don't change unless belief is changed. If she really loves you, then she should at least be willing to hear you out and try to understand why it is she's been feeling all these negative things. If she weren't blinded by her insecurities, she'd realize there's no point in snooping on you because you've already proven your trustworthiness through the patience you've provided her.

The only other thing I can think of, you probably don't want to hear... and that's that you should take time off of eachother. At this point, if it continues, you're going to start doubting this relationship more and more because she's doubting it. It really feels like she needs to take time to find herself, and you as well, as a more objective view will help you both later on. After the time off, you might discover something new that you can't see now, and whatever that insight is, it can only be helpful.

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Opinions needed - Both divorced - bedroom problems - is he into me?

He calls me every day, sometimes more than once - we were good friends for months, but now he calls me his girlfriend - we've slept together 3 x since January, but each time he had "equipment probems". he swears it's him, not me - thanks me for not putting pressure on him - says he is attracted to me, but i am beginning to think he is just not that into me %26amp; is trying not to hurt my feelings. he keeps calling though, sends me flowers, buys me gifts, is nice to my kids. anyone else go thru something like this?

(we are both in our 40's - i have been told by other men i am attractive %26amp; in good shape, he tells me he is under a lot of stress - back in the day he was known as a ladies man, so i am a little confused)

Opinions needed - Both divorced - bedroom problems - is he into me?
This might be something NEW for him, meaning that he could possibly be experiencing LOVE for the first time. Don't equate sex with intimacy or love. He obviously cares, he could be experiencing some issues with his need to satisfy you. Take it slow and let things progress. Try not to do the WOMAN thing. Allow him to be the man that loves you.
Reply:When I say do the "woman thing", I am making reference to the fact as women we sometimes overthink things and analyze what is the reasoning. Now I am in no way saying ignore red flags but I am saying don't overthink things. Report It

Reply:Ok-sounds like he needs a little purple pill, but don't tell him that ! Blood pressure meds can affect a man also. Sound like he's a keeper just be patient and make me feel special. Why not just work on your friendship and try to stay out of the bedroom, etc. Be friends first and start going to church for something to do together-(lol)*
Reply:Wow....at least he told you what the problem is.

It sounds like you are very sweet to him and the next time it happens I would just tell him that the actual sex isn't everything and that you still want to be intimate with him tonight. Tell him that he might want to see a doctor about it just to make sure it isn't something more serious than just ED (I don't think there are possibilities of something else but it will let him know that to you ED really isn't a big deal) and that you'll even go with him if he wants.

Here's a good website..

http://www.healthcentral.com/erectile-dy...
Reply:It sounds like he really is into you. It just sounds like he has a medical problem and he needs to see a physician for help. This is very common in men. Don't back down on him because of this. Encourage him to seek help.
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Reply:Well the next time that you talk to him maybe you can talk to him about seeign a doctor for his man problems. Being in his 40 it could be ED and have nothing to do with you at all I hear it is fairly common. If he continues to do nice things for you and call you all on his own I would tend to believe what he says. Talk him about it and make suggestions on how to help him fix the problems he is having.
Reply:Sounds like he has ED (erectile dysfunction).

It'll be difficult, but you should suggest for him to see a doctor.
Reply:relax if its ment to be it'll work.
Reply:He likes you.He shows this in many ways.
Reply:Give it some time...after my divorce my first two tries with a new woman didnt go so great either...it had nothing to do with them.
Reply:If it's early in the relationship he may have some stage fright in addition to the valid medical concerns listed.

I'm almost 42 now, and when I first started dating my girlfriend, I had "difficulties." However, after a dozen times or so, I got over it, and can go three or four times a day without any little blue or purple pills.

I am in reasonable shape, probably 20# heavier than I was in my 20's, and I was a fit Army officer back in the day. So fitness does matter.

Give it some time, it will probably work out soon.
Reply:has to do with a few things, like how long was he married, ,did he cheat on her, how much groping does he do and the big question is how fat is he, is he out of shape?? that causes huge erection problems,, Men that are fit can get it up and sustain a erection, fat guys have trouble, esp ones with high blood pressure,

have him go get a viagra sample from his doctor and a full check up too, half a pill worked wonders for me, I also feel it is my BP pills, which kepe blood pressure low,

also go to the health food store pick up some Larginine, and some Vitamin C 2000 mg daily, the Larginine will help the erection, couple pills a day and two half hour before sex,
Reply:feel sorry for both of you
Reply:If he calls you every day and sends flowers, I would say he definitely likes you. It is possible for him to have "equipment" problems. Stress, high blood pressure, diabetes and many other factors including medications or even serious problems like cancer or swollen prostate can lead to erectile dysfunction. Encourage him to see his doctor, not for your sake, but for his. Best case scenario, it may help to ease his mind knowing there is nothing physically wrong and the doctor may prescribe something to help. On the other hand, if it is something serious, they may be able to catch it in time to prevent serious harm or death.
Reply:Ok, first of all he's in his 40'ssssssssss.. this is common to happen in men as early as their 30's its not you, he has penial erection disfunction, and untill he actually goes and seeks help from the doctor, this is going to continue.. it isnt u, its him, he has a medical condition , that happens when men get older, they tend to drop in their testosterone levels..and this happens, doesnt mean he doesnt want sex, doesnt mean he's not into u, cause he obviously is, men dont go through so much trouble as to buy flowers, give gifts and get close to ones children if their not wanting to consider the long haul of a relationship, he's not comming after u for sex cause look what happened the 3 times u tried.. it didnt work, u think ur feeling ego problems from this imagine how he's feeling ego wise knowing he cant help it, and its not wanting to work..so he's trying to avoid sex but compensating in other ways .. and its not an easy thing for men to admit to when theres a problem, and they tend to be embarrassed to admit it to a doctor..their brain says Yes i want sex, but their limbido says "nope sorry not going to happen today", and its not their fault, its not ur fault, it just something that happens to alot of men as they get older, remember his sexual peak was over 20 years ago.. and its not something a man feels comfortable talking about especially at the beginning of a relationship with a woman..but if u are close maybe u can try and get him to see a doctor...
Reply:he is at the age that there could be a physical problem, I have been with men who were in their 40's who had to take viagra to perform, he is showing all the signs that he is attracted to you. I wouldn't worry about it. A man who isn't interested isn't gonna spend his money on you.
Reply:You are associating bedroom problems with his sincerity in the relationship.

He might be seeing someone else and his d i c k is telling on him. If he's in his 40's he probably does not have the stamina to have sex with more than one partner. Be careful.
Reply:He is way into you so much that he is also trying to make up for his equipment issues materially. He could have a mental issue with sex or, he is at the age, prostate issues. Maybe he should see a doctor? Inflammed prostate will keep you from popping a good *****. A guy who hasn't had sex in a while either A) will have such a raging hard on he'll finish in seconds or B) be so nervous he can't perform.
Reply:Tell him to get a penile implant!
Reply:He's probably really really into u and u make him nervouse. He was probably nervouse about the act the first time and now that it didnt work he's nervouse about not being able to get it up so now he made it worse for himself lol. I hope this makes sense. Anyways its not u.

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What plans have you made for your lover on Valentine's Day?

A night out? A health retreat? Day of beauty (spa)? Movie? Dinner? Candy? Flowers? Jewe;ry? Gifts? Theater? Or simply veg in? Be specific to help others get ideas.

What plans have you made for your lover on Valentine's Day?
Put hersheys kisses all over the floor and leave a note saying "i kiss the ground you walk on

Put a rose in his side of the bed three days before of St. Valentine Day.

Scatter red rose petals on the floor

Cut out little hearts, a whole bunch of them, and put them inside a pretty card with a little glitter. Glitter scatters when he opens it.
Reply:each n every is day is a special day for lovers n thr is nothi ng to plan on that day

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Are the origins of Mothers Day pagan?

here is what I have read about our Mother's Day celebration. Any thoughts?

On this 100th anniversary of Mother's Day, the woman credited with creating one of the world's most celebrated

holidays probably wouldn't be pleased with all the flowers, candy or gifts.

Anna Jarvis would want us to give mothers a white carnation -- she felt it signified the purity of a mother's love.

Jarvis, who never married and never had children, got the Mother's Day idea after her mother said it would be nice if someone

created a memorial to mothers.

Three years after her mother died in 1905, she organized the first official mother's day service at a church where her mother had spent more than 20 years teaching Sunday school.

Are the origins of Mothers Day pagan?
I don't think you understand what Pagan means.

Paganism refers to people who worship nature and usually the Sun.

What does a wonderful celebration of Mothers have to do with paganism and why should we not commemorate it as such?
Reply:i know the "white represents purity" thing is a concept of pagan and other religions. But I personally feel mother's day does not have to be about any religion, but rather it should be about honoring the person who either birthed you or raised you because you realize they helped to make you who and what you are. not everything has to be connected to a particular religion.
Reply:I have already answered that question, but I will answer it again. Yes, Mother's Day is a pagan celebration. This celebration is a festival derived from the custom of Mother worship in ancient Greece,formal mother worship, with ceremonies to Cybele, or Rhea, the Great Mother of the Gods, were performed on the Ides of March. Encyclopedia Britannica (1959) volume 15 p. 849. Any one who celebrates any pagan celebration is really worshiping the Devil. And talking about Anna Jarvis, who do you think put the idea into her head?
Reply:Rolando C, where did you get your information, In the "Reasoning Book"? Thing is, that book isn't accurate. Before you start quoting it, why don't you do some research and look up the qoutes in the sources that are listed.

Just because this book saids something is pagan, doesn't mean it is.
Reply:Well, the origins are probably secular. I believe that what we now know as "Mother's Day" was largely created by Greeting Card Companies.
Reply:I think you need to find a dictionary and look up the word pagan, then explain why you think Mothers Day is pagan.
Reply:Not in the USA. See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mother's_Da...
Reply:she was also so upset the way it was commercialised she committed suicide
Reply:Nope...

no more pagan than birthdays or anniversaries

happy mothers day PediC
Reply:very possible. the origin of most holidays are pagan.
Reply:Nope - it's rooted in commericalism.
Reply:I believe they're actually Hallmark-ian.
Reply:How is that "pagan" or "unpagan."??? I don't think it's either.
Reply:I heard it came from some catholics. "Hollydays" dont have anything holly on them. In my country one famous guy said about the holly week. "If this is holly week, how the f.... would be evil week?"
Reply:You answered your own question.
Reply:All holidays are...
Reply:it's not pagan, but it is totally commercial.
Reply:Will your next question be "Athiest, why do you celebrate Mother's Day?"
Reply:Very good!! You get an A+.
Reply:idk wat pagan is
Reply:hmm..so that's the story Hallmark is putting out there?..
Reply:Well honoring motherhood and femininity in general, was very prevalent in pagan societies. In fact most of the modern day theistic religions (i.e. Christianity, Judaism, and Islam), are so inherently misogynistic that women are relegated to chattel, and not really honored. So, though Mother’s Day may not have been an official holiday in pagan times, the spirit behind honoring the sacred feminine, and paying homage to the life giving and sustaining force of the feminine is definitely in keeping with the spirit of Paganism.

Now, why has Mother’s Day, as a celebration, endured for a 100 years since its creation? Simply put, it is good business. Restaurants, florists, and novelty shops get a nice income boost from the practice, and hence it has become a great marketing scheme. Sorry to put a damper on the mystique of Mother’s Day, but we really should be truthful about things like this.
Reply:The first suggestion for a day set aside to honor Mothers was made by Julia Ward Howe. She suggested that it be observed on June 2, as a day dedicated to peace.

Julia was born in 1819 in New York to a prominent family. She was an American writer, lecturer, and reformer. She was known as one of the most famous women of her time. She wrote "The Battle Hymn of the Republic", which was inspired when she visited military camps in Washington, D.C., during the Civil War in 1861. It became the major war song of the Union forces.

Julia became interested in the women's movement. She became the first president of the New England Woman Sufferage Association.

Three years after Frank Hering of Indiana launched his campagin for observance of Mother's Day in 1904, Anna Jarvis began a campaign to a nationwide obervance of Mother's Day. She chose the second Sunday in May. She also began the custom of wearing the carnation.
Reply:I'm sure the Pagans will try to claim that one too. Along with Labor Day, Independence Day, and Martin Luther King Day.

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What is the emotion displayed in Vermont Teddy Bear commercials called?

When women envy other women getting flowers or other gifts from their boyfriend? The facial expression almost resembles sadness. It's hard to describe if you haven't seen the commercial. If there isn't an English word for it, does it exist in a foreign language (possibly Italian)?

What is the emotion displayed in Vermont Teddy Bear commercials called?
Never seen the commercial, but from your description of the situation, I'd say "melancholy".

fitness

Some Romantic ways to meet my fiance for the first time in person..?

Well, we are online couples for nearly 2 years now, we're going to meet for the first time in our lives in a 10 days. I am going to meet her at the airport with her mom, I have so many plans to go meet her for the first time, but I dont know what would be the best, could anyone give me some nice romantic sweet ways to welcome her n tell her, "its me, your love"

may be withsome flowers? or some gifts? just plain hugs? um.. we are super close, n we share a good understanding. so could any one suggest any ideas?

Some Romantic ways to meet my fiance for the first time in person..?
Ok...now I am not going to be my usual hateful self...BUT I have to ask you...why would you get engaged with someone you've never met? She's meeting you with her mother? How old are you? How old is she!?! You need to elaborate on this a little bit. How much money are you looking to spend? Cuz there is a plethera of things that you could do on a simple budget or a more extravagent one! Start off by renting a limo. Have the driver stand there with a sign(with her name) and a single red rose. The driver will take her to the limo where another red rose would be snuggled in the car handle. She gets inside the limo and there will be the other 10 roses in the car. Have a bottle of champagne for her and her mother to sip on while they anxiously await to meet you. Have the driver take them to a very nice and quaint restaurant. They walk into the restaurant and there you will be in a nice suit holding another red rose. *sigh* that would be an AWESOME way to meet her for the first time!
Reply:meet her with that ring first then sit down and let her no how much she mains 2 you i meet my husband though a friend all we did was talk on line 4 a long time and i am so happy 2 have him in my life he is my all i love him so much everthing will be okay just treat her like a lady be well boo boo
Reply:A bookstore with a coffee shop is great. There are others around but you don't reveal who you are just yet. Let him search. Or her. Note where he or she is. Note the titles and books they peruse. Then when he or she is ready to leave meet him or her. The element of surprise. Awesome!
Reply:So you're engaged to someone you've never met in real life? Okaaaayyy...

Spend some time preparing yourself for the possibility of a major letdown. I don't want to sound pessimistic here, but people are rarely EVER the same online as they are in real life. Be sure that you spend LOTS of time together in real life and make sure that you can stand each other before jumping into such a huge commitment.
Reply:I know what you're going through...i'm down that road myself...i find myself every day wondering if this man is the one for me but you know what if you really love her then nothing can stop you from being with the woman you love...I'd try a rose with a hug and a kiss...I mean it'll be the first time meeting so make a good impression....Best of luck and keep it calm and casual...Just some advice!
Reply:barf, your fiance? you havent met yet?

how can you be "super close' it has all been what you imagined it to be... and I say show up with flowers, start getting to know each other as real people, drop the fantasy, dont use the word love, and think of you being pen pals up until the time you actually meet.
Reply:You should take flowers for the mother and a gift for the "fiance". You should have met before deciding if you want to marry her or not. People are different on the phone and the computer. I guess you know what you are doing. Good luck and GOD bless.
Reply:WERID... that you haven't met her yet. but anyway do something cute llike take the mother a thank you card as i n a way for saying thank you for having her and some roses and the "fiance" take her,her wedding ring, roses and chocolates. then later you could fix a romantic candle light dinner and really get to know each as people. I just got one question how did you propose and you two were online dating? did you send her a e-card with a bear on one knee holding a ring and the car flashing marry me.. LOL.
Reply:Send your computer to meet her at the airport. It's been doing all the work for you up to this point, why stop now?
Reply:She is your fiancee and you've never met her? Hmmmmmmmm ... talk about risky.
Reply:try a rose with a box of chocolate
Reply:oh geese.... Thats what my dad did. I would just do flowers and a hug... wouldnt it be funny if she wasnt the person you thought she was??
Reply:lol, fiancee and never met, lol
Reply:hahahahaha online for 2 years?

dude get a life

She might be dude or different woman hiding behind that screen

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Hubby bought a supervisor a cake, he's NEVER bought me one(17yrs togthr). Should I get mad?

He's picked up the phone and called in flowers but never gifts or a cake. I'm feeling slighted since he's making an effort to personally go pick up a cake. Would you feel slighted and why?

Hubby bought a supervisor a cake, he's NEVER bought me one(17yrs togthr). Should I get mad?
Hecy yeah, I'd be upset. He is obviously making this person a priority with something he has never done with you who should be number one.

He should never do for someone else something he is not willing to do for you.
Reply:Over a cake??? No. If he kisses the supervisor, now you have a problem. Remember, he gave you his life. Somehow , cake doesn't seem relevant here.
Reply:supervisor a woman? feel bad....
Reply:a cake is less than flowers, so dont worry, anyway tell him how you feel
Reply:YOU NEED TO EXPRESS YOUR FEELING TO HIM...
Reply:there's no reason at all why you should feel slighted, get mad or feel jealous.....he's the boss and in the position to buy cakes for his staff if he chooses, however he could have and should have had someone else do it. But, maybe the company is a small one or maybe nobody else wanted to do it and he owed that person something (for doing a good job all year), and it surely is a heck of a lot better than buying them a present.
Reply:i would'nt be mad if buying the chick a cake is going to get him a raise then so be it as long as he brings me a slice home!!!
Reply:He's probably just sucking up to the boss.

The cake is most likely going to be shared by the people at the job or office, himself included. This sounds like a work situation. Don't bother yourself about it. Next birthday or other gift type day give hints (on paper) about what you would like. Do you want a cake or would you rather him take you out to dinner where you can order dessert?
Reply:What do you have for birthday cake if your husband never gets you one? Does he even know that you want one? Are you always on a diet? Maybe he doesn't bring you cake because he thinks you won't want it. Also, what do you get for birthdays and christmas? You stayed with the guy for 17 years and he's never given you a gift?
Reply:Don't get all frustrated behind cake. Just tell your hubby you will be expecting a cake on your birthday.
Reply:stop worring about nothing. your hubbies supervisor can promote your hubby, can you?
Reply:Sounds Like Cake Issues

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Reply:Be thankful that you at least get flowers.We`ve been together 30 years and I`ve never gotten flowers or a card let alone a cake.
Reply:I would just monitor the situation. I know that in my experiences if it dosen't feel right it usually isn't. Just don't go overboard and ruin your relationship with jealousy.
Reply:No..no. Its his boss and everyone in the office is probably behind it. Maybe you are just a little jealous because his boss is a woman. But you shouldnt worry coworkers bring cakes in all the time for someone leaving, B-day, promotions, holidays doesnt really matter.
Reply:Please dont get upset over this, but if you are getting all pissy over a cake are you sure there aren't deeper rooted issues at large here? I mean, its a cake, for an employee. He is running a business, sometimes to keep moral up in the workplace, the main boss/supervisor occasionally has to lower himself to the same level as the day worker, makes him look human and able to interact with the employees on a larger scale than the Yes sir no sir, you are right boss, kind of thing.
Reply:Do you bake yourself? I ask because I do, and my husband NEVER buys me a cake, although he will buy one for the ladies at work from time to time. Heck, I even bake so that he can take cake to the ladies! Some men honestly just don't think though, so tell him how slighted you were, you may be surprised to find that he didn't know.
Reply:My husband bought flowers for a woman at work whose birthday it was, It made me mad because he never went out of his way for me. If he didn't do it for you yes, you can be mad but don't overdue it. He was maybe showing his "nice" side. Cake doesn't mean sex. He did buy you flowers, think of the good things he has done.
Reply:Oh Dear God!!! Come on! So he bought her a cake. He was probably told to by someone else in the office. We have pitch in's all the time where I work. Everyone brings something for whoever's birthday it is. It isn't a big deal!!!

Pick your battles!! After 17 years together, I would think that you have more important issues to deal with!!!

If you want him to buy you a cake - tell him! Men need a lot of direction!!

You are being a little insecure about this. I really think you should just let it go - it isn't a big deal!!
Reply:Honestly, I'd be a little peeved. I see it quite often, when husbands are more considerate of other females than their own wives. I don't even think they realize it, if that makes you feel any better. I'd bring it to my husband's attention, maybe by saying something like "How nice and thoughtful of you, I wonder why she gets a cake and the woman that washes your shorts doesn't?"
Reply:My dad brings donuts and cookies to work for female co-workers, I never seen my mom get mad at him LOL
Reply:Talk to hubby don't get mad, men are slow sometimes, maybe you could mention how nice it would be if he was to do it for you one day. Explain how you feel a bit ripped off because he doesn't put in the effort for you may be he will get it Good luck
Reply:Be the bigger person....he isn't hiding anything from you......you are just being petty.
Reply:Yes you should feel that way. As a matter of fact I think that this is grounds for divorce in most states. So call your lawyer and change the locks.
Reply:Absolutely not!

If my husband bought me a cake, (or anything edible) I'd be cross (i'm on a diet) but that's besides the point, it won't get you your cake and it won't make him be any more thoughtful.

I would tell him what a lovely thoughtful gesture and what a kind man he is and how happy you'd be if he bought a cake (or in my case diamond earrings) for you.

You're more likely to get them then.

Louise

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Reply:I think it's jealousy that you are feeling - he's doing something for someone that he has never done for you. I doubt he thought of it on his own, someone at work probably suggested it to him so he ordered a cake for everyone to eat at work. A lot of men don't think about things like that. I have to flat out tell my husband when I want something because he just doesn't think of it - why? Because he doesn't need it. Men and women think differently - neither is wrong, just different.

Tell him that you would like a cake for your birthday, too, and remind him as the date gets closer. It's just how men are, okay? Don't take it personally.

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What are small romantic things you do for your spouse or partner on a daily basis?

my husband is really good about bringing flowers or small gifts etc. problem is he's out in the world more than i and has more access to these things. i'm looking for things aside from cleaning, cooking etc.... i'm trying to get more romantic inspirations... thanks!

What are small romantic things you do for your spouse or partner on a daily basis?
I like to send ecards to my husband at work. I send them before I leave each day. MSN greeting cards, celebrate the date is a really fun place to find zany ones for free. I also like to pick out yummy things for him when I go shopping. Don't over look a trip to buy something nice to wear at night. (it doesn't have to cost a fortune.) Slip a note in his lunch, buy him something on the Internet and send it to his office. Did you know Hickory Farms has yummy cheese and sausage and you can upload your own picture to make a card for your sweetie. Write him a note in sidewalk chalk on your driveway for him to see when he gets home. Light some candles in luminaries and set them out to line the way up to the door. Light candles, get your favorite movie and enjoy the evening. Ask him how his day was and really listen. ....Good luck =-)
Reply:Bring him ice cream, make him a coke. kiss his ears til he laughs.
Reply:well, during the week i hardly see my husband because we work all day. the only time that we see each other is when we are home eating dinner and watching our favorite T.V. show and our intamate time. so, what i liketo do before i go to school in the mornings since i leave an hour before he does i give him a kiss before i leave and i also right a little something letting him know how i feel on a pos it. i try do this often so he can remember that i care for him every day.
Reply:Hmmmmmmm how about a lil stick note that just says I love you, or telling him be ready at 9 tonight . How about maybe a lil foot massabe or back massage or pedicure. Candles at dinner.............put a note in his pockets telling him how much u appreciate and love him so he will find it at work . I'm sure u can get creative here seweetie
Reply:Simple things go a long ways. Cooking his favorite meal might not sound like much, but believe me, this is one of the most romantic things you can do. Anything that says "I know what you like, and I'm doing it" is romantic.
Reply:I put little notes in his wallet where I know he will find them when he goes to buy his lunch! or when I know he's almost to the door I'll start his shower for him so he can just get in when he gets home! I also give him little back massages when he's on the computer. Sometimes I text him just to say I'm thinking of him and that I love him. but the notes are his favorite. He likes finding those when he's least expecting it!
Reply:Here are 10 small but romantic things you can do:

- Cook a meal you had on your 1st date. Ask if it reminds him of something.

- Send an 'I love u' SMS when he least expects it.

- When he gets home from work, surprise him with a kiss (instead of talking).

- Look and smell good when he comes home.

- Give an occasional backrub (best when he's had a bad day)

- Cuddle up cozy when watching TV

- Hold hands when you're out together

- Wear sexy lingerie

- Have a bubble bath/ jacuzzi together

- Tickle each other

It needn't be something fancy...what counts is the thought behind it and the fact that you want to celebrate your love for each other. Good luck! ;-)
Reply:always put his feelings needs above yours start with not questioning about his day but with giving a massage making something special for him allowing him to hog the tv shows
Reply:my husband and i have a romantic dinner at home at least once a week with the works - candlelight, smooth jazz, nice wine - it's something we look forward to every week!
Reply:Fix desert wearing an apron and panties. Make sure it is something that needs to be stirred real good and tell him that he can look but can't touch until the timer goes off!

Slip into the shower with him and wash his back, etc. And then slowly dry him off.

When he is watching tv, sit in the floor between his legs and hold his hand.

Curl up against him until you get ready to go to sleep. You could also go on a shopping spree buying several things and then pull something special out every so often for him.
Reply:guarantee you'll be getting a lot of perverted, x-rated comments from the local male idiots.
Reply:i would slip little notes into his pockets or lunch or briefcase that say "i love you" or "have a great day"...something like that.
Reply:Every morning I leave for work before my wife gets up and I leave the living section of the paper and a cup of coffee sitting on the counter for her to grab on her way to the bathroom.

It is really and truly the little things that are the most romantic.
Reply:I give him a massage, leave him notes in his car or lunch, I tell him what I'll be wearing when he gets home LOL I know you said other than cooking but I do a lot of baking as well. He loves to have treats like cookies, brownies etc. You have to remember that your ideas of romance are probably different. He buys flowers to romance you but he doesn't necessarily want a small gift or flowers. Have you ever read the book "the five love languages"? People like different things like words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, physical touch etc. Either get the book or just talk to him and ask what would show him love! My husband thinks it is so loving of me if I do a chore he's been putting off like mowing the lawn, he also likes it if I make his favorite food. I personally would rather have a kind word or physical contact. Neither one of us are really gits people. Figure this out and you will always know how to touch his heart.

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What Taiwanese/Chinese customs can I use at a bridal shower?

We're planning a shower for our friend from Taiwan and want to use some wedding customs for the shower. I'd like to know how to decorate (colors and flowers) and what gifts I should give.

What Taiwanese/Chinese customs can I use at a bridal shower?
Can you ask her Taiwanese/Chinese relatives?

You can also check out customs online. See this site:

http://www.topics-mag.com/edition10/wedd...

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How can I win someone's heart that I know and she knows me, that I love and she doesn't, that i dream of her!?

I meet her like 2 years ago... we spoke some time and after a while she didn't wanted to see me no more. I send her flowers, sent her gifts and e-cards. I never forghot a special day to her. I am completly obssesed with her :). Now the real question comes. What can I do more... for anything I try makes her hate me more and more. Her YM is eilandia and I would sell the world(hehe sound nice) to be with her or around her. Do you think u can help me!? What can I do!?

I wrote her tons of poems too.

How can I win someone's heart that I know and she knows me, that I love and she doesn't, that i dream of her!?
I'm sorry to tell you this, but maybe it's better if you stop trying for her. If she dislikes you more with everything you try, then it can't help to keep trying. You basically have two options, just forget about her and move on (which I realize is hard to do), or keep her in the back of your mind, but try not to obsess so much.

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