Did I Do Something Wrong?

I asked this girl out to my senior prom by sending her 18 red roses with the question on them. Next day she didnt talk to me or acknowledge me at all. After school i texted her and she said she wanted to go with someone else. I was fine with that but now she wont talk to me and she never even thanked me for the flowers. Excuse me for sending someone a really great gift ($100 flowers by the way), i hate being such a nice guy and getting **** in return.

Did I Do Something Wrong?
Aww...there should be more guys like you out there! Don't stop being a nice guy...most girls would appreciate it! Obviously you deserve better than her anyway! You will find someone else, and I'm sure you will have a wonderful time at prom! :-)
Reply:Please don't stop being that nice guy, you will eventually find a woman that will appreciate you.
Reply:You know some people are just plain old selfish. The least she could have done was say "thank you", and she didn't even do that. I tell you this much though, I can almost promise u that her day is coming, not so much that she didn't go with u to the prom, but her lack of appreciation for the gesture. Please don't change because of the ignorance of others. you stay true to who u r, which is obviously a nice guy, and there is nothing in the world with being nice, you treated her the way u would want someone to treat u. That is what counts, and that is what u WILL be rewarded for. I can promiseu that.
Reply:Honestly, it's not you, but her! She just doesn't see you that way, though she certainly could have been more polite about it! There are plenty of women who would be impressed by such a gift. That being said, though, I hope you have learned a very important (and expensive) lesson about money here and that you won't be so quick to spend so much money in the future on something that isn't a sure thing.
Reply:Two issues:





1- The amount of $ you spent on the roses. It was a decision you made to spend it, and should have no strings attached. In fact, you should be happy merely with your own gallantry and not need anything in return. Nobody is influenced by roses or jewelry so don't spend any money in future, save it for things you want.





2- I suspect she was overwhelmed and slightly frightened by the roses and had no idea how to respond. She may have been freaked out, felt she was under an unwanted obligation to reward you in some way, and therefore avoided you.
Reply:well you didnt have to spend THAT much money on a girl trying to get her to go to the prom with you. one rose would have been enough and you should have known that there was a 50% chance she was going to say no





but dont text her and dont even bother you time with someone like her who is not greatful. you deserve better.
Reply:She's just not the right one for you. Sometimes its that simple. No you did nothing wrong. And kudoes to you for putting it out there. We all suffer from rejection at some point in out lifes and I don't care if your brad pitt. I'm sure he had his day or two before he became famous. Its a part of life. She's just not interested and give it some time before it passes. In the mean time don't call her or text her. Just ignore her. If she's truly a friend she'll come around and if not oh well. There's plenty of nice and I mean NICE other fish in the sea.
Reply:Maybe she just wanted to be friends. You asking her out could have ruined it.



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