How can you know that you are really in love with someone?

is giving each other gifts eg flowers, cards the qualities of a good lover? please help.

How can you know that you are really in love with someone?
You don't know it, you feel it. Gifts have nothing to do with it. It is the fact that you don't want to be anywhere else but with that person. When it hurts if they go away. That is love.
Reply:If you really are in love with someone, you want to be around them all the time. They are always on your mind, last thing at night and first thing in the morning. Their happiness is more important than your own. You would do anything they asked, even if it did not make sense. When you see them you feel the smile spread across your face. You miss them 10 seconds after they leave. When you touch them it feels like forever. Being in their arms makes the world stop and you feel like you are the only two people on the planet.
Reply:I think you are asking two completely different questions here. The first is about being in love, and the second is about being a good lover. One can be a good lover and not be in love, right? The flowers and cards are thoughtful and I would certainly recommend giving tokens of affection when you care about someone. Being attentive and tuned into your lover's needs is key to being labeled as a "good lover" yourself. But really being in love is something that is much larger than that. It should be something that you just know. And if you don't feel it bubbling up from your core, you're probably not really in love. Good luck, and have fun! Love should definitely be fun most of the time.
Reply:well if u think about them alot n u just cant stand being away from them that long u are if u worry if they are ok is another way but u have to show them u love them not just with gifts but with emotions also
Reply:It's simple. You think of that person day, night, even in your dreams, and yes you want to buy gifts and do nice things.
Reply:Actions speak louder than words, do you feel yourself perk up when your around them, heart skip a beat, butterflies in your stomach, do you simply feel happy with them no matter what material things you have, if so you can call it love.
Reply:the hole world stops and it is only you and that person.
Reply:You just no, u don't need to question it.
Reply:After 5 years you still get butterflies in your stomach when you see them and cant wait for them to get home!
Reply:You're heart goes -- pitter-patter %26amp; skips a beat whenever they enter the room, your eyes meet and it's always as if there is no tomorrow, just that moment in time, right here %26amp; right now. They are your everything %26amp; nothing else matters. The flowers %26amp; the cards are virtually meaningless, carrying only the thought behind them, but bought only to impress. Unless the flowers are home-grown and picked out of their own garden %26amp; tended with loving caring hands, sown %26amp; reaped for the sole benefit of the recipient. The same holds true for a home-made card, put together with loving care %26amp; grace, only wanting to show the recipient how much they care.





That's how you'll know if you are really in love.
Reply:all those does not tell you if a person is a good lover. there are other things he or she will do that does not involve material things that will let you know his or her feelings towards you.
Reply:Your hands are shaking your knees are weak. you can't seem to stand on your own 2 feet. your tongue gets tied when you try to speak. You're all shook up.
Reply:yes those are great...you will feel you cant live without him or her
Reply:its not the gift that counts, its the thought...believe me, girls go crazy about thoughtful guys...you will know that you are in love with a particular person when all you think about is her, you couldn't wait a single hour just to see her or talk to her, she means the world to you, you would do anything for her to make her happy...to make it short, you'd still love her without expecting anything in return--that's unconditional love...
Reply:If you love someone, in my opinion it means that you enjoy their company and you can be yourself around them. They treat you with the respect you deserve and vice versa. I know I am in love because when it comes down to it I can't imagine myself with anyone else being my lifelong partner. Remember, money doesn't buy love. It helps for some people, but at the end of the day- do you want to be laying next to this person always and forever? That's how I know.
Reply:It is very simple, when you look at something you wonder how it will affect them, when you eat something you wonder how it will taste to them, when you see something you wonder how it would make them feel in short, you think of them first and you second.
Reply:None of the above really measure LOVE!





Missing them, laughing with them, fancy them want to spend a lot of time with them?





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Reply:It isn't about what they buy you, it is the little things they do. It is making your favorite dinner for you after a hard day, paying attention to the small details like even knowing what your favorite dinner is, hugs from behind when you are cooking, the way their face lightens when they see you, etc... There is a ton of things my husband does for me. When I have a bad dream, he holds me close and tells me everything is ok.
Reply:you just know when it hits you,you dont need to ask to know,the gifts meen nothing to me not a bit.
Reply:Yes.


If you can't eat as your so in love.


They are always on your mind.


You always want to be with them.


You think of your future together
Reply:How can you tell you are really in love? If, when you can't stop thinking about the person once they are away from you. You pray for them more than you pray for yourself. You know that deep down inside this person is the right one for you. You have a really good connection not only physically but communication as well. You get butterflies sometimes when you are around them. You don't always have to buy each other things just to say I love you. You know that when you are together nothing else matters.
Reply:U fall in love when u can not stop thinking about them and talk to them for way more then an hour and giving gifts



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