Mother-in-law flower mix up? Do i ask for it back?

For mothers day I wanted to give my mother-in-law some flowers and a gift basket. I made the gift basket but when I bought the flowers they were in a cheap clear plastic casing and i wanted to put it in a vase. Scrambling for time i had to think quick and since i dont ever receive flowers myself i didnt have a vase.





On my mantle i have a really pretty ceramic pitcher i got as a wedding my dilemma but i did want my vase back (tacky sure but we are pretty close). Well she wasnt there so i had to leave it on her door step.





She calls me a few hours later and tell me not only does she love her basket but especially loves the pitcher "i gave her" I was tongue tied. Its one of my favorite things but i feel like a brat for asking for it back.





Do I: A.) suck it up it was my fault B.) we are family and nicely ask for it back???

Mother-in-law flower mix up? Do i ask for it back?
Since you are close, I would discuss it with her. Once she realizes how important this is to you, she will probably understand. I would in the same situation. Apologize for the misunderstanding and go from there.





In the meantime, you can try to find one to replace it for her by calling the person who gave it to you. I wouldn't tell them that you accidently gave away their gift, but explain to them how much it is admired and they will feel flattered that their present is so well liked and appreciated. I'm sure that your mother-in-law would appreciate anything you give her as long as it is truly heartfelt.
Reply:if i was in this situation i would probably ask for it back because it was a wedding gift and im sure it has sentimental value (plus its the only vase youve got!!) she is your mother in law and she should understand so i say ask for it back just be sure to say please (after all the worst she can say is no!) hope i was of help :)
Reply:It's a no brainer. Just explain what happened and tell her how embarrassed you were on the phone to tell her then. If you get on well enough it won't be a problem because she won't be looking for an agenda. She will see the funny side.
Reply:Dont ask for it back. You can enjoy it when you go to her home and later on, your husband can ask that you can inherit it since it has such sentimental value to BOTH of you
Reply:Since it was a wedding gift I would tell her the truth and ask for it back. Buy her a new vase when you speak to her.
Reply:I'm sure your mother in law appreciated them,and I,m sure she has a vase .




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