How do I stop my husbands ex wife from ruining my marriage?

This woman sends me messages that my husband is emailing her, that he is sending her flowers and other gifts, that he has a secret email address that I don't know about so they can keep in touch. She sends me messages that she has talked to his family and they all hate me, that he talks to her and makes fun of me...this goes on daily...he denies everything buy I don't know what to believe. She has vandalized my car, she's made complaints to my professional licensing board about me...but she's never met me...she is determined to destroy my life because I married her ex. How do I find the truth and stop her from ruining my marriage?

How do I stop my husbands ex wife from ruining my marriage?
Based on the fact that there has been some destruction of property and harassment, go get a restraining order. If she contacts you after that, turn her in. You never know, a few days in county jail with the fine people in there might give her just the attitude adjustment that she needs.





As for if your husband is really doing what the ex claims he is, you're just going to have to trust your own judgment.
Reply:save all the messages and show your husband them. put a block on her in your emails. and go to the cops and file a restraining order.
Reply:I fought fire with fire.


End of story.
Reply:WOW what a horrible woman that one is. bitter betty for sure. these kinds of women are dangerous to both male and female alike. .. Get a restraining order out on her and make sure she is not allowed to communicate with you or your hsuband in any fashion what so ever even if her house is burning down. and she is not to come near your work or residence or anywhere you may be .





To hell with her. You have your own life now. She won't get the message by you telling her to stop. a woman of this calibur needs a stronger message sent to her. So save your breath in trying to reason with her and let the courts decide this for her she chose this fate.
Reply:Tell her to stop, or the next assenine thing she does, will


be her last !


If she doesn't believe you, tell her to "Watch Closely" !
Reply:Obviously she is getting him by getting to you. Block her email address so she can not email you, and tell her whats she does not want to hear, "That he is your husband and not hers, for a good reason". Do not listen to "he said.... she said" nonsense, it will drive you crazy and is usually 100% false. It has been said a million times and it is true "KILL HER WITH KINDNESS". This will drive most shallow people crazy.


good luck
Reply:Time to file a harrasment law suit against her. Collect all the crap she has sent you then go see a good lawyer.





The fact that you give any creadence to this woman shows that her plan is working. Stop being a doormat and get to work. Your lawyer can tell you the best plan of action.





Luck
Reply:Take legal action - get a court order.
Reply:Get a laywer and restraining order against her for contacting you in any way.
Reply:She wants you to doubt him. Ask her why he's married to you if he WANTS to be with her? It seems that if he wanted to be married to or even BE with his ex that he would be. He IS married to you and the only one who has a problem with it is her.





She needs to be reported for harassment and you BOTH need to make the report together. He has to send her a message that her behavior is not okay.
Reply:First turn her in about her weird behavior.


Get a restraining order.


Don't be one of those on Cold Case,


and we never know who did you in.


Never talk to her directly. keep her guessing if


you are getting her messages or not.


Keep in mind people like this can be dangerous.


It's not a game. Be careful.


Then concentrate on your husband.


Spend more time together.


Pretend little miss trouble doesn't exist.


If all else fails , get a private eye.
Reply:First, I'd tell her that she is STALKING you and that if she doesn't leave you alone, you will call the police and have her arrested for stalking. Second, I would talk to your husband's family as to whether any of them have had any contact with her. She sounds unstable and I'd be careful. If she vandalized your car, you should have called the police then. She does sound mentally deranged. Your husband needs to do more to help the situation. HE should tell her that if she continues to harrass you, he will have her arrested. And do it. If this destroys your marriage, it's HIS fault. He should be backing you up on this.



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