Why my wife never buys me a gift or says i love u?

i am married for 3years now and my wife never buys me a gift or flowers or even a card for my birthday,valentine's day or even our anniversary. She never says to me 'i love you" or "i miss you" when she travels or even shows me the feeling that she loves or miss me or even cares.


i never asked her for anything, it hurts me soo much, i talked to her about this but she doesnt show me any care and even hurts my feelings more,so i stopped talking to her about this anymore and tried not to think about this too much but i cant. it really makes me soo sad and think of divorce.

Why my wife never buys me a gift or says i love u?
Awwww. Poor girly man. I always thought her buying you lingerie and saran wrap was her way of saying "I love you."





Must be all that porn she's looking at behind your back.
Reply:Your problem is unusual because it is usually the man who shows lack of affection as your wife has done to you. You must have seen this total lack of affection in her before you married her, but you married her anyway? Since you said you already have spoken to her about this and her response it to hurt your feelings, I'd say she is highly insensitive towards you. This must be very sad for you. I know divorce sounds sad, but if this continues sooner or later resentment will build up in you and you will seek affection else where.
Reply:Everybody lives by their own love language and we usually show our love to others in the way we WANT it shown it us. A great book (if you are serious here!) is "5 Love Languages" (by CHapman) that addresses this and is very true %26amp; helpful. When you are with someone who has completely different love languages then you - then you find yourself in JUST this situation. (I am too with my husband) THEY nor you can help it, but being aware of what our partner needs and what each others love languages ARE can make a huge difference - along with some professional counseling of course! What you are seeing as insensitivity and even unkindness might just be a completely innocent understanding of what YOU personally need because she views your needs through the window of her own - which is obviously completely different.


I can relate!




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