I have went to see him a few times the very first time he was 3 days old i was on my way home from the cites ,

and though i would stop by with some gifts and flowers for her ,well before she even had him she told me she could not leave the house until hes baptised ,well when i got there she and the baby was at her brothers b-ball game,so there is one lie ,2 asked if he had my son's last name she said she didnt know for sure,then i have found out she left the baby with a sitter and went out drinking,anyway i have said to her all i care about is seeing my grandbaby ,i have drove 2 hrs to see him for 20 min to me thats worth the long drive,i call to see how he baby is and i email her ,so i guess just wait and see what happens,as for her and my son she wants to be with him,but hes not sure,and as for ins reasons,does it matter what the babys name is he can get ins no matter what ?

I have went to see him a few times the very first time he was 3 days old i was on my way home from the cites ,
I am a single mom, and my son doesn't have his father's last name. This was a decision I made based on the fact that we were not going to remain together, and I didn't want it to be difficult on my son having a different name than I did. His father and I discussed it, and he was agreeable. His father wasn't involved at much in the beginning, but his parents were and still are a very important part of their grandson's life. Anyway, the baby's last name doesn't matter as long as paternity is established it should not be an issue (not a test but the father should also be on the birth certificate).


I am sorry that you have had some difficulty with seeing your grandchild, I hope that it goes smoother. My son's grandma used to also travel about 2.5 hours to visit us, and was kind enough to also let us come there (she even set him up a little crib and room), and we would stay with her about once a month for a weekend and a week here and there in the summer.


Just keep involved and above all try to not be judgmental. She is probably going through a lot of hormonal changes now that she just had him, and she also has her own concerns I am sure about the relationship that may make her feel awkward.


Good luck.


By the way, my son is now 12 years old, and things are just great. He just came back two weeks ago from a three week vacation to visit his grandma and other relatives. It can work out. Don't worry.
Reply:That's not very fair to you; you only want to see your grandbaby, and you're not a party in the situation. I hope it works out for all of you.
Reply:I must be missing something here!



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