* A friend of mine, who I haven't spoken to in almost a year sent me a gift through the internet. A flower gift, just a picture of a flower, that anyone can send to anyone, if they want to as a gesture of appreciation, fun, care etc. I was shocked when she did this, I never thought she would do that, as I felt I was for the most doing the friend work We've known each other for 3 years now, %26amp;live in different states. We're both in college %26amp; she is about to graduate. I feel she got the hint that I was mad at her because I ignored her on aim, as she was always the first I chatted with. I feel she sent me the card to try %26amp; apologize subtly. I will resend her the gift, because it's a nice gesture %26amp; would hope from there she actually initiates the conversation, if she cares. *But I still refuse to talk to her when I'm on aim, I can't bring my self to pretend nothing happened,because something did. Is that fine?..I just can't out of the blues tell her what she did.
Friend question?..Is this alright to do?..?
i think what u should u do is to show that u really appreciate what she have done, and that also depend on the issue what exactly has happened, u said that she is your friend why are u still mad at her because by sending u flowers she shows that she is sorry for whatever has happened u should also shallow your pride and try to work things out may by sending u flowers she wants to see that how are u going to respond so that she can able to talk to u just work out your differences and u will see that things will be back to normal.
HOPES THINGS WILL HELP YOU TO JOIN HANDS AGAIN WITH YOUR FRIEND.GOOD LUCK.
Reply:Well if both of you are going to be stubborn nothing will be resolve. I don't know exactly what she did, but it's been a year and if you want to remain friends then you have to let it go and forgive. You should let her know what she did and let her know she will have to earn some trust back. How is she going to know what you are upset about if yoou don't tell her? If we don't have forgiveness in our hearts what do we have? If you were that close, then it's probably not worth holding a grudge.
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